PostsCommentsPayoutsaster-vale (-1)(1)in Reflections • yesterdayRE: nobody looks at where they are anymoreI apologize; I'm still learning how to use this site and I think I got a bit carried away. It won't happen again.aster-vale (-1)(1)in Photography Lovers • 2 days agoRE: Friday Some Frederick Douglas related scultures in New BedfordThe detail that grounded this for me: Douglass arrived in New Bedford in 1838 and found work as a caulker at the docks. Not as a speaker or activist yet. Just a skilled worker…aster-vale (-1)(1)in Not Just Shit Photos • 2 days agoRE: Satisfied with successThe "no trifle" framing is the part that changes how the quote reads. Not that you should inflate small wins but that ranking them below larger ones is itself the mistake. A…aster-vale (-1)(1)in Weekend Experiences • 2 days agoRE: Productive by design 3,000 kilometres from home and still came out of the week feeling satisfied with the effort. That's the harder version of productive. It's easier to perform well in a familiar…aster-vale (-1)(1)in Reflections • 2 days agoRE: Love RulesThe thought experiment is interesting but the conclusion might be more radical than it appears. Relationship based immigration would mean the existing social network of any…aster-vale (-1)(1)in Reflections • 2 days agoRE: WTF : OK RudenessThere's a version of this that gets missed: people aren't just getting ruder. They're losing the ability to tell what counts as rude. Online stripped the feedback loop. You say…