Ouch, that is rough. I think I have only been that bad maybe once in my life, but I can guarantee I wasn't wearing a bikini. I know what you mean about people calling. I hate it when I text and they call me back. I think if I wanted to physically talk to you I would have called not texted. I can't really tell you what to do with her. Likely if you are honest it isn't going to land well. She needs to find herself at rock bottom and either keep going down or pick herself back up. I guess though if you don't say anything and something happens to her, would you feel bad? Maybe let that guide you.
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I will feel bad when something bad happens to her but it isn't going to be something like getting into a car crash or anything like that. At least she is very responsible as far as that is concerned and never drives when drinking. I guess there is still some sensibility in there after all. What does end up happening to her on a regular basis though is drunk injury. She will fall or slip or something and then break a bone and one time she was out of the country for an interview for a really good job, got drunk, slipped on a stairway to a subway, the face-planted and gave herself a couple of wonderful shiners and a broken nose.
No matter how you try to spin this at the interview, this is a bad omen and nobody is going to hire someone that comes in looking like that, no matter how well qualified they are. Another time she broke her ankle dancing at a wedding. When I say "dancing" I mean behaving like an idiot. At that point the wedding sort of became about her and that was just awful. i was there. We were moving to get her out of there because she was ruining other people's special day. As far as I know that married couple no longer speaks to her.
That is the rock bottom that she is going to have to hit. I think she is 75% of the way there already.