PostsCommentsPayoutsd4deb (54)in Reflections • 4 days agoYou are not enough.You acted as though I said that on the night you left. You acted as though I said these words, but I didn't. You have always had at least one older sibling as you are growing…d4deb (54)in Reflections • 3 days agoIgnored trust.😖 Misplaced trustSaying that you know something then proving that you didn't. is one way to get an education... d4deb (54)in Reflections • 6 days agoExperts on what is or isn't annoying.This is kind of where it all starts for me. But before we look into how to become an expert in what's annoying and what isn't, let's go back to my decision on how I would parent…d4deb (54)in Reflections • 2 days agoRE: Underwear DayReading from here down, you just said everything I have been trying to say to my child. ...parents who think that removing all obstacles and discomforts from their children's…d4deb (54)in Reflections • 2 days agoRE: Ignored trust.😖 Misplaced trustGood rule... Yes! But once I said it, I had to keep it. It has been that way since they were little. They all both hate that rule and love it at the same time. Whenever…d4deb (54)in Reflections • 6 days agoRE: Experts on what is or isn't annoying.I am not currently using AI at any capacity. I give it a try every few months but AI is worse than a child, needing too much instruction and training. I might use it when it…d4deb (54)in Reflections • 5 days agoRE: Experts on what is or isn't annoying.Reflections is a really good name. It seemed to fit what I needed to write. Right now, all I can do is reflect on what was said the last time we saw each other, and how he…d4deb (54)in Reflections • 18 hours agoRE: Ignored trust.😖 Misplaced trustI know. I had him and could have laid into him. But... What gets me is that I have shared my mistakes and what I learned from them. I could have let them think I was a…d4deb (54)in Reflections • 2 days agoRE: Underwear DayExactly. I am writing to my child because he cannot hear it now, not from me anyway. I will elaborate a bit here and there for passers by, but my goal is to tell him as if I…d4deb (54)in Reflections • 4 days agoRE: You are not enough.The questions were more to see if I need to hire a nurse or someone to be here in case I fall asleep and don't wake up. I needed my child to check on me. I was trying to let him…