What I hate in a person character
- A pretenders
is a very bad attitude it takes the person with large heart to accommodate these type of people, The pretend to be with you, they will also contribute in that particular thing you're doing, if possible they will even advise you on what to do but they are all pretending they're never with you, the can go behind you and stamped you at your back.
My brother-in-law has a friend, which he taught he is a friend, he always run to him for advice has friend concerned, not knowing what he's doing behind him. This friend, after hearing my brother in-law mine, sometimes he even bring a suggestion that is very good but he has a bad motivate towards the suggestion he brought, he will go and scattered the plan, if it's concerning a person, he will go behind and tell the person not to accept the plan or the proposal and the same person will came back to my brother in-law telling him to be very careful in case he was able to get the work because he hard that the man is a terrible person, he was just making people to create hatred for each other.
But has God will exposed him, some one hard him when he was criticizing my brother in-law and the person called the attention of my brother in-law, and he was very disappointed he tried to confronte him, he did everything possible but he denied until when they call the man that had when he was criticizing him that was when he came speechless, just imagine this, this is the reason why I hate pretenders, but to cut the story short, my brother in-law was able to get the contract and my brother in-law found out that the man that give him the contract was a very simple and nice man.
Conclusion
I was surprised at my brother in-law behaviour towards that his pretending friend, he only told him what he did was not right, he said if it where someone else he could have sued him for tarnishing his image and that is all, the continue as though nothing happened, wow, that is maturity.
I had to ask him why he just let go like that but he said even him has his weaknesses if people will hate him who will help him get out of it and that is why they are together to help him get out of that terrible character.
From there I learned how to accommodate also but I pray to do that because is not easy.
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