Two people can be given one thing to interpret, and each of them will interpret in a different way, sometimes coming to the same conclusion and other times contradicting each other.
This reminds me of a post I saw on Facebook some time ago. Two people were kept facing each other, and the number “9” was kept between them to define.
One said it was nine, the other one said it was six. It's funny how both of them are right; the issue was from the place they were looking at it from.
The issue of opinion is very critical, and I can assure you that one of the reasons why many people end certain matters in dispute is because of the plane from which they were standing.
One person on this side might be seeing right, and another from the other end might be seeing left.
We come from different backgrounds. Our families and environment have groomed us in a certain way. The way we think, view, and tackle issues varies.
There are certain things that might be permissible to us that might be an offence to others.
Coming back to the prompt, if you ask me if people's opinion about me tallies with who I see myself as, I will tell you “yes and no.”
I am a calm individual who loves to keep my space and avoid anything that would tarnish my image.
As a result, I am careful with the way I relate to people. I am very sensitive to words, and I do not hesitate to place people where they belong whenever it is necessary.
Coming back to people, even some of my friends, they see this as pride. They say I don't open up.
I am too serious, and I don't value friendship. But is that who I am? Not at all. I tried making them understand my personality, but some don't just want to understand.
You see, I see myself one way, but they are seeing it in another. However, there are also people who understand and take me the way I am.
So, the thing is, some people's opinions about us will tally with what we see ourselves as, while for others, it will be the direct opposite.
Sadly, there is nothing we can do about this; we can't teach people how to see things unless they are ready to see it our way.
And we can't say they are wrong simply because they are not seeing things the way we are. Sometimes, it's the way they were brought up; their minds were coached to believe things in a certain way that is completely different from ours.
A lot of things influence our opinions, and sometimes I feel that unless there is an agreement, no one should conclude that anyone is wrong or right.
Well, I am not doing anything about people's opinions about me. I know who I am, and when it is necessary, I make amendments, but just because someone doesn't agree with what I agree with, I can't be troubled to start doubting what I believe.
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People's opinion might be different from ours and some might, but regardless of what it's, it's completely normal, except for one we ourselves know we're lagging behind, in that we can initiate a change, but if not that we should just keep living our life.
That's just the thing. Where there is need we should adjust if not, it's to just live our lives regardless o
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Your own opinion about yourself must count and not that of others which should hold no water. Thanks for sharing.
Gbam, it should not always be about people's opinions
I made a mistake with this, so sorry. Will correct it ASAP!
Thanks a lot
This post capture my thoughts in so many ways! Sometimes I wonder why everyone can't have the same opinions and then I realize it would make zero sense. We're different humans with unique brains. We won't always view people the same way or process things like the next person. Hence, the differing opinions.
My only problem is coming across people who cling so much to their opinions like it's the truth. Quite off-putting. I'm glad you've realized there's little you can do to change their views about you except commit to being a better version of yourself. You're on the right path.
I use to beat myself hard about how others feel about me but when I realized that we can't see things thesame way, I got liberated. I take corrections where necessary and move.
Smile.. for those who hold onto their opinions like it's a law, I don't bother myself much staying on the subject arguing with them. You believe what you believe, I believe what I believe. Just that it becomes frustrating sometimes if they happen to be our parents or bosses at work.
This is the exact reason I'm happy for you. I guess this type of stance comes with growth, which is a good thing. I think the best way to handle parents and those directly tied to your finances is to clear the misconceptions but if they don't relent, then it's up to them. However, you might want to ensure you refuse their poor descriptions of you every single time so it doesn't affect future opportunities. Have a great day
I'm in love with this topic😊
Opinions won’t always align, and that’s simply the reality of life. Many disagreements don’t come from hatred, but from the different perspectives we each stand on. What feels right to one person may look completely different to another, shaped by their experiences, struggles, and understanding.
This is why we shouldn’t be quick to judge from the outside without first sitting where another person sits. Every idea and decision carries meaning, depending on where and how it was formed. When we choose empathy over criticism and seek to understand before reacting, we create space for growth, peace, and genuine connection.
Understanding is indeed the key
Gbam, this says it all. People don't act or react for nothing. The fact that your belief doesn't align doesn't mean that they are evil or wrong.