It's not time that heals...

But what we do with him. I need to vent a little today.

Is it just me or is the world feeling more aggressive lately?

If you ask me what I want in this life, I would say peace. That peace that is felt when we do things from the heart, when we look around and know that we have chosen well.

I don't want big things, just sincere moments with the right people. The material comes and goes, but what we leave in others, that stays forever.

That's why you have to learn to do everything with love, because in the end, that's the only thing that really matters.

Checking ourselves is not an option, it is a responsibility to grow and heal.

Life has taught me that sometimes I can't have everything I want. He taught me that no matter how hard the blow and the wound, nothing hurts forever and that sorrows do not annihilate, they only forge character better.

This is a process and I am committed to achieving expressing needs and setting limits is basic in any relationship, establishing agreements and fulfilling them, more... these days outside of my work I have reflected and read some very important things in life 💛 that have also taught me, that loneliness is not bad and that in the end, sowing good in people, even if they pay me badly, is the best way to hope for sure, that someday the favor of the universe will compensate me with the best.

On the street, on social networks, in everyday life... it seems that the ability to see the other has been lost.

Sometimes, the one who hurts you doesn't even realize it. Or worse: he just doesn't care.And no, it's not about living surrounded by malevolent, toxic people, or gray cloud, it's more complicated than that.

Most people aren't ”bad" if we put ourselves in their shoes... But if we step back a little and see the big picture, it's scary.

We need to take him down two.

To breathe. To look around again. Remember that we are not the center of the universe and that the other also matters.

This country, this planet, we all inhabit it.And if we don't learn to live together with more empathy, then what do we have left?

Stop pleasing everyone all the time, except you, and let's start prioritizing ourselves! 🙄 Learn to say NO without guilt set smart boundaries, for everyone.

This ensures our transformation!

So I managed to secure this corner in my house in the best vintage style, with devices from the past that now arranged in this way heal my spirit.

This is a way to heal a safe space in my home for me to take care of my mental health, here I always receive a warm treatment from yesterday's technology with the changes of nature itself.

Janitze 🦋

Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited with Canva

Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia

Translation with |DeepL