Blogging Challenge Part #5 - Day 11: Have you had a dysfunctional relationship? / Día 11: ¿Has tenido alguna relación disfuncional? ❤️

Hello Hive friends! Welcome to my blog ❤️. I hope you are doing very well today. On this Thursday of blogging challenge we must reflect on a dysfunctional relationship in which we have been or some example of it.

¡Hola amigos de Hive! Espero que se encuentren muy bien hoy. Bienvenidos a mi blog ❤️. En este día jueves de blogging challenge debemos reflexionar acerca de una relación disfuncional en la que hayamos estado o algún ejemplo de ella.

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I always say that from all the experiences in life you can learn something. Whether they are good or bad experiences, they all leave us some teaching. The question is to apply what has been learned in the future.

Siempre digo que de todas las experiencias de la vida podes aprender algo. Ya sean buenas experiencias o malas, todas nos dejan alguna enseñanza. La cuestión está en aplicar lo aprendido en el futuro.


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I generally get well with all the people I meet. I don't usually have problems with anyone, I consider myself a calm person who is always in good mood. Only once did I meet someone with whom I got on badly. I think it was because our personalities were so different so we lived in conflict all the time.

Generalmente me llevo bien con toda la gente que conozco. No suelo tener problemas con nadie, me considero una persona tranquila y que siempre esta en calma. Solo una vez conocí a alguien con la que me llevaba mal. Pienso que era porque nuestras personalidades eran muy diferente entonces vivíamos en conflicto todo el tiempo.


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Although we always tried to agree, this was never the case, it cost us too much. Maybe because one of us always wanted to be right. Then over time the relationship became untenable to the point of continuing our separate journey. I think that this relationship was more bad than good because we lived in conflict all the time, but in the end it helped me to reflect on how to relate to others. So, despite having been a somewhat dysfunctional relationship, it had good consequences on my way of being 😃.

A pesar de que siempre intentábamos ponernos de acuerdo, esto nunca era así, nos costaba demasiado. Quizás porque uno de nosotros siempre quería tener la razón. Luego con el tiempo la relación fue insostenible hasta el punto de continuar nuestro camino por separado. Pienso que esa relación era más mala que buena porque vivíamos todo el tiempo en conflicto, pero a fin de cuentas a mí me sirvió para reflexionar sobre la manera de relacionarme con los demás. Entonces, a pesar de haber sido una relación un poco disfuncional, tuvo consecuencias buenas en mi forma de ser 😃.


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Feel free to join this challenge whenever you want! 💛
¡Siéntanse libres de unirse a este desafío cuando deseen! ❤️

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❤️ Hope you liked this post! Thanks for reading ❤️.
❤️ ¡Espero que les haya gustado esta publicación! Gracias por leer ❤️.

With love. / Con amor.
Lau 😃💚.

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There is always a good side to every bad situation we find ourselves, and in this case there was definitely something for you to learn in that relationship. Some times we just have to face something's and learn. Really nice of you to share.

Quick question though, did you complete the other part of the Challenge or you just went straight to part five, I'm thinking of jumping to 5 ohhh🤦🏽 part two was the last one I did.

I did part 1, 2 and now part 5. I skipped the others, for the moment I found the questions in this edition more interesting 😅.

Okay, I will do same

I have been in a dysfunctional relationship.... the only good that came out of it was my children .... and the person it made me ... or maybe not so much the person it made me .... relationships are hard .... I stayed in one for too long .... and I took too long to get into my next one .... now .... I’m reluctant to get into another one .... I feel I’m too old for the games ...One guy tried for almost a year before I agreed to a date ... and that was our first and last date.

As life progresses it is more difficult to get involved in a relationship ... To be comfortable in one you must first be comfortable with your loneliness ... The problem is when you like your loneliness more than sharing your life with someone ... That is what is happening to me now 😅.

La verdad, es que también pasé por una situación semejante y no me agrado mucho, pero aprendí que debo seguir adelante sin cambiar el como soy, Tienes mucha razón en lo que mencionaste, Excelente post, me agrado leerlo:`)

Siempre digo que de todas las experiencias de la vida podes aprender algo. Ya sean buenas experiencias o malas, todas nos dejan alguna enseñanza. La cuestión está en aplicar lo aprendido en el futuro.