However, we are all bound to step on each other’s toes once in a while. No one is perfect and that’s very okay. If we were perfect, we wouldn’t even qualify as human because our imperfections also are a part of who we are as individuals. Honestly, I’ve had to come into contact with different kinds of people due to what I do and I will tell you today that there are some people you will meet once and pray never to cross paths with these. Sometimes you see them somewhere by chance and you try to hide from them because God knows they’re so out of it.
People can go overboard sometimes and we sometimes have to over look it, but not everything can be overlooked and for how long will you keep looking away. I always say that, if you know you have to say sorry after doing something, you know you’re doing something wrong so why do it in the first place. I’d like to believe some of us don’t respect ourselves enough and that’s why we are always those having to apologize for our wrong doings and messy behaviors.
No matter who you are, you should know and learn how to carry yourself. Nothing is an excuse as to how you act because every one of us is hot tempered, we just chose to tone it down because some of us are actually really really mad out there. You step out and see people acting so out of character and their excuse is, they are hot tempered. Like we all aren’t. It tends gets so bad that people start to avoid you and before you notice ,it will be too late.
But then again, to some people extent I would blame society for making such people believe they are hot tempered and so all their actions and misbehaviors should be excused. Once you refuse to call them out, the pattern continues and before you know it, it’s something else. But who suffers the most? You in the individual because eventually everyone will get fed up of your bull and unless you fix your attitude, people will keep avoiding you.
I always thank God for making me the kind of person who doesn’t let such things slide. Once you do it, I make sure to call you out before it gets out of hand. Being hot tempered isn’t an excuse for being razz and until when will you keep saying ‘oh that’s how I am and so deal with it’. No one is gonna deal with your bad character. What you need to do as a short tempered person is to seek help , be ready to change and walk the steps because that is the way to go. At the end of the day, what I will say is, fix that attitude and you’d be fine.
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People should learn to fix there attitude and stop with the excuse of that's how I am . Untill the land in prison
That’s very right!
Being hot tempered is never an excuse to get away from what we did wrong, people should understand this and go learn so self control.
Everyone has the ability to get angry and do things, but some control themselves because they don't want their actions to hurt those around them. Everyone should learn to control their emotions and stop looking for a way out after doing ridiculous things.
Well said!
That's even the height of it, saying that's who I am
I can also be bad but I chose to be good. So what are you telling me?
It's just a filthy excuse they give to be pardoned for what they do
Right!
Saying that you're hot-tempered as an excuse to the way you behave is never okay. Society should not encourage or even accommodate that ideology. And when we find people saying that, it shows they're not ready to make changes. Everyone has the ability to be mad, like you mentioned. But we don't see everybody doing that because people have learnt to say no to that. So, it's an intentional effort.
I totally agree with you.
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