It is normal for humans to be social bugs, but most times misunderstandings, and complaints, could set in. And when most of these things happen, turn to turn a blind eye by keeping silent.instead of resorting to quarrel I end up not talking to that person for a long time. Often times I'm being told it's Snobbery. I'm the kind of person to move on, and carry on like nothing happened, the live like a person never came into my life. I tend to do this for my own peace of mind and quietness. But most times I'm being told that it is being arsenal since I tend to take it too far than just keeping silent. But I feel like keeping quiet and overlooking a certain amount of pain is worth the struggle.
Well I feel that is more negligence than necessary, because there are times you would want to reply a person after you've been offended and it just ends up escalating . But from my experience I feel like everytime you keep quiet and they notice your presence is gradually not available they tend to tell you they that they actually noticed and come back to see what the problem is and at this point you gain a stronger ground because you can decide what happens to the relationship this is more suitable than quarreling and having a huge dispute and both of you blaming each other for no reason. But my problem is I've been tired the snob for wanting to carry out this peaceful attitude. Yes I'm going to not talk to you because my lease is sure going to be involved I'm going to overlook whatever you're saying not doing no telling me because I disappoint whatever you say is no longer pleasing in my side I think that is where I become the snob who doesn't want to talk to a person who has offended me.
The ability to be silent in some things is important because arguing is not always a good solution and having some time to think about a situation before responding is good. I don’t think it’s a snob to keep quiet in a situation like that.
Well this is a relief for me , because so people feel once you don't talk to them at that particular moment it's then a thing of silence and contention