I think you are doing well in telling her story, and it also seems to me that you have brought up some important points that I can agree with. But I'm sorry, I can't give your post the answer it deserves, I tried to write a longer comment but it's a problem because the internet goes back and forth all the time, and I take a little help from online translators to make sure I don't make any mistakes. I'd like to share my stories, or my family's story (what I know of it), but I don't have the same desire to share that around here as you do. Maybe for me it's not the right place.
I will re-read your post tomorrow and address the other points you mention (if I think my opinion is needed).
Good post. Cheers!
Thank you,
yes, we've talked already about personal stories. I am a little sad that people do not wish to tell them in the same way I do. But I understand if this is not the right medium. I sometimes see this platform as something which might survive even though I may have been gone. Thinking to put my articles into pdf-files to store them.
Your opinion is always appreciated :)
Sorry about the Internet.
Thanks, I don't have much to add on this occasion though.
That's awful. I'm sorry to hear that. How did you feel about it? Have you had more experiences like this in your life?
I do have similar experiences, yes. But mostly, I think, my parents and grandparents passed over their fears on me, those parts, they left unworked and unreflected upon. It's hard to carry the burdens of former generations and I try my very best to clear them, to solve the trauma and to become calm about all the horrible things that happened. I hope, the carriage I will hand over to the next generation might be of lesser weight. Unfortunately, there are countless others who live out their traumas on children, in particular at kindergarden and school.
Nevertheless I am positive about how I raised my son so far. I have done most of my job until now. He will soon be an adult and will take care of himself.
I'm sorry you went through that. And I'm sorry if I touch on a sensitive subject for you.
Yes, that's what we should all try to do, I think, to reduce the weight. And it's good that you're positive about it.
Cheers.