Oh man the trials of parenthood!
We can take all of the hardships and tough lesson experiences as consequences of our parenting decisions because we care so much. I have to stop myself from worrying about that as I recall learning some things the hard way and benefiting from them long term. Not once did I think it was anything but my fault but I bet my parents were thinking the same thing.
I have to resign myself to focus more upon the strategies I have in general for the kids and less on the situational tactics to solve the issue of the moment for them.
Proud dad right there and we are happy for you!
That's always true, but we as Parent do more hand holding compared to our generation because of several reasons. Time has changed a lot, so does a lot of other parameters. But then we will try to give them our best.