It just so happens.

stereotyping is a social tool we develop from experience or experience shared by others. it helps us by making sure we do the correct action that will benefit us instead of being taken advantage of due to panic and anxiety.

'these people', 'friends', 'enemies', and most commonly here 'mangangamusta lang pag may kailangan' (people who will greet you ONLY when they need something from you).

these are words we pinned at persons we don't care enough to occupy space in our human memory.

to me, there are only two states, to give a shit or to not. that is what 'care' means in the former sentence. (I repeat this alot that I am pretty much spamming)

to care is to either be fond of something or someone, or to hate something or someone.

and when we care about someone or something to a certain extent, then and there do we give them a space in our human memory.

we stopped calling this entity as 'him'/'her', but instead we acknowledge the entity as an individual with certain quirks and traits unique only to it.

on the downside, we give these individuals permission to hurt us.

I guess that's what trust is, giving them weapons but believing they won't to use it against us.

so then, why do we stereotype?, we do it so that whenever we get into an encounter or a situation with those entities, we are better prepared on which preset action to take and not waste brain power thinking about it.

and also to group entities that are insignificant to the side to concentrate on entities that are important to us.

this is also good for our mental health as you are able to ignore the brutality and cruelty of our world.

PROTIP: if you want to move on from someone, the fastest way is to evict that individual from your memory and place them in a stereotype we call 'those who hurt us'. making them fuel for rage.

To be Independent, THERE IS NO SUCH THING.

If you are a living, breathing organism, you are automagically a dependent to another entity.

an asteroid is an independent object, it's dead.

But I know what you mean, an Independent person is a person who can provide for himself/herself, which depends on his/her job.

an Independent Person would maintain the Status Quo, telling itself that they are happy and content at where they are, never challenging higher. they fear depending on others like it's some kind of disease.

an ineffective dependent person is a person who doesn't have someone to depend on. they try so hard hard to please other people only to be acknowledge, and when they fail they blame themselves. it's a very sad state.

when someone is suicidal. do you know what are the words we use to stop them?, "stop!, think about your parents.", notice how most of them is telling the suicidal person about dependencies. dependency and responsibility go hand in hand to the point that they make a handshake. if an independent person goes suicidal, they would just jump out the window without care.

dependent people do not want to cause suffering other people so they keep it bottled up or share it to someone who is responsible for them. when two people are both dependent and responsible to each other. now we have the most powerful unit ever. an effective dependent person.

now an effective dependent person is an idiot. a dependent person would strive to do their very best for the people they are depending on, so that they will be proud of us. and even if you don't excel, you cry back home and they will be there welcoming you.

I firmly believe that people who look Independent from a distance, are actually effective dependent people.

and this makes me post about Nihilism (which I also spam a lot) but now I will blend it with the Existential, to make (less) sense of it all.

Everything is created by the work of "It just so happens."

It just so happens a god pooped on the primordial pool on earth and cause life.

It just so happens a meteor fucking killed all the dinosaurs.

Nothing Matters.

but this is because we lack the data to view the past.

as we live now and able to feel and be felt.

the timeline of the universe. we are given chance to influence it, and this chance is called 'life'. it's fucking finite.

time is the most precious thing a living thing can give to another.

this is the present.

why not try and go out to influence the world around us. a butterfly effect. LET THE WORLD FEEL US.

see this fucking tree? I was the one who planted it.

see this shit on the toilet? I pooped it myself!

a mind is a beautiful thing. each and everyone who are living are in their own personal world.

who knows maybe down in the future people who you have influenced before would look back to the past and say. "Hey this person broke my world."

and for those who actually read this shit from me. see I matter to you don't I?. 😉, even if it's fucking silly.

Thank you. 😘

Yes this is a shitpost.
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