On average, women said they reach orgasm 31-40% of the time in response to the question about intercourse in general. By contrast, women said they reached orgasm even more often with assisted intercourse (51-60% of the time), (assisted intercourse is getting their clitoris fingered or using a toy on it during vaginal penetration) but less often with unassisted intercourse (21-30% of the time).
In the above study women were asked how often they orgasmed during sex and on average the reply was 31-40% of the time. To make it more specific, they asked how often they orgasm when being penetrated with a penis and at the same time having their finger or their partner's finger or having a toy on their clitoris and they said 51-60% of the time. While they orgasm only 21-30% of the time when only a dick is inside their pussy hole without a finger or toy on their clitoris.
This is poor! Really poor, and it is sad. I'm sure a lot of us already knew that males had more orgasms than females but looking at these stats just you see just how dire the situation is. Men have orgasms whenever they have sex and it's only on very rare occasions that men don't, most men can't even imagine having orgasms only 60% of the time, it's a horrific imagination but here are women scoring 60% as best case upon best case scenario.
So as many experts around the world are trying to help the situation here is my contribution, "The Female Orgasm Series*.
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Today's edition deals with The Major Reason Females Have Less Orgasms.
The Major Reason Females Have Less Orgasms
Some experts might disagree about what the major reason is or they might think some other things play a bigger role in the problem than this, but check this out and make your conclusion: The major reason females have less orgasms than their male counterpart is because females usually wait on their man to give them an orgasm instead of trying to get their orgasms by themselves
Usually, after foreplay most women hand over the reins to the man and the man decides the positions and does all the thrusting, dictates the pace, etc. While the woman waits on whatever the man is doing to pleasure her into an orgasm. This attitude to sex can hardly work because usually the man is doing what pleases him rather than what pleases the woman. At best he can only do what he thinks would please the woman and he can get it wrong. Can you compare this to when the woman is asking for and doing what pleases her? Of course not!
So this attitude/practice of waiting on men to hit the right spot and pleasure you into orgasms while he's trying to please himself needs to stop. What are the solutions?
Solutions
While penetration is going on women should chase the orgasm for themselves too. Try positioning your waist, pussy or body in a way the penis would be reaching and hitting the parts of your pussy that pleasures you the most.
Request for the paces you want Do you want it faster or slower? Request and if he probably can't go as fast as you want you can move your waist at the pace you want.
Get on Top Get on top and dictate what happens and be in control of the pleasuring. Take your destiny into your own hands.
You have to discuss with your man and find a way around who should orgasm first and compensations: Saying that women should request for things and getting in control too can mean that the man might not be enjoying some of the things she is doing for her own pleasure the same way she doesn't enjoy some of the things he does for his own pleasure. Both parties have to talk about these and come to an agreement, maybe the woman should go first and reach orgasm before the man takes back the reins and reach his own orgasm. The both parties have just got to decide who goes first.
If the man is one who orgasms too quickly and orgasms while the woman is trying to please herself and hasn't reached her orgasm yet, a second round can always fix this, a second round can be began in order for her to get hers.You have to request things that you like to be done to you Many women wait on men, like I've said, and when the man isn't getting it right they simply categorize him as poor in bed instead of telling him what they like and how to go about it. Women shouldn't expect the rare invaluable fortune of meeting a man who is great at pleasing their bodies, you can't always be lucky; also such men are very rare and again all women don't like the same things* so the things he's doing to you that you don't like are probably things his previous woman liked or things other women like, etc. So simply show the man you have how to please you and you'd be happy. If he's a poor learner and unteachable find another one if you want.
Involve the clitoris Many women find it difficult to orgasm without clitoral stimulation. As you can see in the study above the best records came when women included some form of clitoral stimulation to vaginal penetration. Women should find a way to include it if it's their thing.
Understand your body, find your pleasure points And then tell your man about it. Touching yourself can help you find it, reading books, researching, talking to experts/doctors, etc.
See a doctor Sometimes there is a health condition involved so talking to a doctor might be the solution if all these fail.
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