Living in this world doesn't give you happiness. Of course, sadness is a part of it but it doesn't mean it's just making life miserable. It's part of life that makes it beautiful because you can not tell how it is to feel what happiness means without experiencing sadness. Though sometimes it's unbearable to accept it, it's just the balance of life.
All of us are prone to feel pain. No one is excluded by it. From the day we became conscious of life we are already aware of what life means. Maybe at our younger age, we don't fully understand but the pain is already there. We saw how it felt when someone very dear to them just passed away. We could tell their pain but we couldn't feel it. It's a common understanding that it's hard to explain when you are not the one who experiences it. Even though we could tell how it pained them we could not express it.
At a younger age, growing old feels like something scary. Understanding many things that will not be allowed to be done is one of the things we become afraid of. How much more knowing that death awaits? It's funny to think how much I was so afraid of it even though all of us were going there. It may sound stupid to be afraid because we forgot to understand that it is part of the beauty of life.
I've been thinking about when people lost their loved ones. They will go home and spend a longer time. Most members of the family who lost will feel the mourning. The number of liters of tears is falling and to be shared with everyone who feels the agonizing pain. The good things about that person who just passed away will now be remembered. Asking forgiveness for not spending more time with that loved one. Regretting the time was wasted because of dreams and plans in life. It's kind of stupid to me but I understand that living has so many things to do. Though the time of spending and saying something to that person we loved just passed. It might not be useless because it allows the whole family to gather and express their love to each other.
No one will understand why people dies but everyone can understand why it's necessary. I don't think I need to explain it in right words since all of us have different explaination why there's an ending of life. Maybe death is not just the ugliness of life. It is also the beauty of life even though it's hard to understand. I can not tell but I'm just guessing that it is. For us to understand that we don't do in life recklessly because a world without colors is boring. No challenges so there's no need to work hard of it. We should understand that without those fears and endings, I think there's no fun in living.
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ABOUT ME
Paul is the name but prefers to be called mrnightmare that feels like living in the dream. A country boy and a dreamboy (dreamer) who likes to stay in a small village even though it means abandoning the future to become a seaman. The passion is writing but not sailing in the vast ocean. Don't wonder if the face will not be shown, this is better where the words can flow smoothly. Come, you can tell me your stories and I'll tell you mine. Together, let's explore the world by broadening our thoughts. If you need a shoulder I can lean you mine and I hope I can lean yours. The world is fun when living is not being alone but with someone.
Because we have fears, we become cautious. A world without fear would be a careless world. Our fear of loosing someone or something precious makes us treat them better. The understanding that life has an end that's most time unpredictable, makes us will ourselves to do the most whilst we still find ourselves alive.
Thanks for sharing these deep thoughts.
I appreciate your time reading it. Yes, because if a world with no boundaries there will be no fun I guess.