YOU'RE THE PRODUCT OF YOUR DECISION

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Many people like blaming others for their actions and deeds while others don't even make attempt to bear the consequences of their actions. One of the things that makes life enjoyable and beautiful hinges on the kind of decision one takes. I want to share something profound and interesting about decision which is critical for every individual to take.

I would like to share some experiences where decision made some people while others could not take responsibility to bear the consequences of such decisions they made. I have the privilege to stay with a teenager and other toddlers which has really boosted my experiences in children upbringing. Many people are just good at making noise and varied comments without considering the cost it takes to make good decisions. Every decision comes with its consequences and impact.

In one of discussion with the teenagers, I told them that they shouldn't blame anyone for the resultant effects of any decision they made. One of them always like playing the game of blame. Whatever you ask from him hmmm he would create an excuse and say it. I had to tell him one of these days that it's high time he begins to see life in another perspective. Why do you wait for everything to be told before you take any step? Must one all the time tell you about the routine you need to do? I couldn't hide my feelings but to express my self as raw as I can that in life never you just push everything to someone instead you have to be responsible.

Many people are regretting the kind of decision they took either directly or indirectly but as you read this few lines I would like you to take a drastic step in taking the right decision. Let me quickly share some tips that would help one to make correct and perhaps right decision.

The first thing is to ensure that you have an open heart or mind. Never get clouded with many things instead sieve and throw the chaff. Is not everything that one must chew and digest there are some that are good to discard them.

Aside that it's expedient that one equipped himself or herself with the right knowledge. It's said lack of knowledge people perish. You act according to the level of your knowledge. Many times the level of our knowledge affects the kind of decision we make therefore in all your getting go for knowledge. It's a powerful tool that you can't afford to take for granted. Check out the kind of friends you keep and association you join. It can affect you.

As I conclude, life would have been better for us and we would have moved or attained some high level by now but the kind of decision we consider has really destroyed us.

Make wise decision today and see you at the top.

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Many people hate accountability so they settle for blame games.

Many just blame others to use them cover up their mistakes.