Knowing our peace of mind is one thing that is very important. We could find peace of mind only when we are able to define what we are and who we are. Most of the times we end up trying to impress other people and thereby hurting ourselves or not caring for ourselves the way we should. We find it difficult to pay attention to our own needs, rather, work towards settling other people's problem.
A lot of person is carrying a lot of burdens, without solving their own problem, they intend to solve others peoples on, dear by neglecting theirs. Finding a moment to settle your own problem and challenges is very important in every individual's life. Problem never finish, and it is impossible to solve all the problem in the world or in our personal life's. Personal happiness is very important and everything that we do should what towards promoting our happiness and joy. In most cases people don't know what through peace of mind is called and what it is all about. If 75% of people could walk towards making themselves better or best, then it is very important to encourage, creating self awareness and build self-esteem.
One of my professional colleague, often post a video and sometime a picture on his status, which states, "how could you invest and spend your money on a woman who is poor, and at the end of the day you become poor, just to prove to her that you are not poor". Sometimes we had a problem we have, because in most cases we try to impress an outside whereby neglecting ourselves and hurting ourselves the more. If we can be intentional about ourselves and our well-being, then we can be able to set boundaries.
In situation where people come around asking for help, it is very impossible that nobody could ask you for help, that means we are not progressing. But when you consider people every time and always without putting yourself first you end up settling their own problem and hurting yourself. You could show assistance I'm not the master planner or solver of the issues.
In a situation where a challenge set in, may be, for example, financial challenges. If you must help when this issues come to you or the individual involve, for example it is $10 on a demand, you could assist with $3 to $5 instead of giving all, and at the end of the day you end up regretting it. It is important you place yourself first in everything you do life just Once.
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You’re right. If you’re helping others, at your own expense, you’re only hurting yourself. It’s best to do what wouldn’t end up taking a toll on you.