"People treat you depends on how you treated them."
~@mrnightmare89
Were you wondering why some people were cheerful but in front of you they're not? Did it make you worried when people didn't treat you well even though you didn't do bad to them? Were you afraid that they might not like your presence? You have so many questions but have you been asked yourself first why?
It's normal for the people that they are too focused on themselves and then forget other people's thoughts. You want someone to treat you good like when you will encounter them on the road or anywhere. They will greet you, smile at you or stop a second and have conversations. You were envious because that someone you knew was ao good in having many friends. You were wondering but you didn't give a chance to know that person more. You don't that maybe that person spent more time greeting random people and made them friends.
Sometimes people asked too much but didn't know what they were asking. You kept on saying why people don't like you. Why the people kept a distance from you. But instead of asking you didn't ask yourself first. They won't talk to you right away or greet you right away. Like "hi, how are you or how have you been?" The reality of our lives doesn't work like that. That's why everything that you wanted to happen or to have will start to you first.
You want him/her to be your friends. Then you must be the one to approach them because it's you who really wanted it. Don't wait for them to ask you since you don't know what they're thinking. Just like when you want to have that job. Don't tell me that job will come at you just to hire you. No, that's not going to work because even you understood how life works. If you want something, approach it, grab it or get it. There's no harm in trying anyway, just don't try to approach fire or you will be burn.
In your daily life as well that kind of thinking applies. If you want your day will be full of happiness. Of course, you must be the one to show happiness first. By doing that you are influencing other people to feel the same. Don't tell me, people will cry when you greet them with a smile? They will get mad when you will offer them happiness? Of course, they won't but instead, they will appreciate what you're doing.
You maybe forgot the basic of how our life works in this world. Please don't be because to be a professional you must be an amateur first. You can't start the count at number 10 right away when you didn't start counting at number 1. So the basic is to give your smile to someone to make them smile back at you. Start it by your own actions and let them follow you.
thank you for reading
d' dreamboy,
@mrnightmare89
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i agree ! there's no harm in initiating first. Some people are just waiting for the other to make the first move. i can relate to this one because i am an optimist and i tend to make friends with random people anywhere i go. for me it adds connections.
True, but unlike me, it's hard because I'm shy to approach people. Introvert personality is waving. lol
thanks by the way
This is wonderful brother... too many times, we are victim's of all the "what if's"... Truly appreciate 🙏 your using my #thoughtfuldailypost, and is good to see you... !tip
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