...continued... from Part 1 and Part 2 and Part 3
Being caring means you would go through any length to show how much that person means to you and not just to prove a statement to the world or to rub it in their faces, but to show a deep sense of care because you don't want to be without that person...but these days, we are more concerned about what our friends or family thinks or say than what our heart truly wants. We would rather let them see us as strong than do what's best for us and like I would always say, it MUST be mutual.
Timing is also very important in a romantic relationship and this is also a bit related to being considerate. Once you are considerate, you wouldn't do what you don't want to be done to you.
Speaking of timing, how do you expect romance gestures from someone who is dealing with life crisis? It shows selfishness and naivety.
What do you desire in a relationship? It is okay to have expectations in a relationship. Why won't you? Your expectations motivate you to give your best. Always communicate your expectations to your partner and that is how to build a romantic relationship. If I don't know how to love you, how can I do it better? Yes, there is a place for observation - where you don't even have to be told and also, there is a place for communication.
Learn to love your partner in a language they understand and not in the language you understand. Imagine me loving you how you want and you loving me in a way I want, then there would be room for discussion, adjustments and considerations where you can both reach a common ground.
...to be continued...
Thank you for your time.
My pen doesn't bleed, it speaks, with speed and ease.
Still me,
My tongue is like the pen of a ready writer.
Olawalium; (Love's chemical content, in human form). Take a dose today: doctor's order.