A special date
And I remember the thrill
Of a Valentine's Day
With gifts and love
But I remember with
And I go to work
Looking for where to find
The partner that will be
On that special date
And I don't have a boyfriend yet
What am I going to say
To my WhatsApp friends
That all of them in their statuses.
What a pity I'm going to spend
Another year without a boyfriend
To show in society.
This poem, reflects the feeling and what it meant to me this commercial date, we are still in the month of love and friendship and today I come to publish my story once again, answering the question of day 3 of the challenge 7 Days of self-love.
An initiative that I create @danielapevs in support of the community of @naturalmedicine that seek to strengthen the integral health of people and in this month develop dynamics to form people with special esteem, that love comes and enjoy life without equal, to be able to say I love myself the same as the rest and receive quality love with open arms without reservations here I am to love.
The activity of day 3 is: Make intuitive writing, talk about the feelings that this date generates in you, and meditate on it.
When I was a teenager this date of February 14 generated excitement and expectation for me to see who dared to express their feelings for me 😁😉, but I never received anything, no one dared to confess their love or no one romantically loved me 😐😔😪 🤣😬, as the years passed this date stopped having a romantic sense for me.
Already as an adult and with couple relationships, I didn't receive details to celebrate this date either, 😒😏, and I started to feel aversion for it, I felt pressured by the social environment, to show in social networks my love life. I wasn't as mature as I am now, but I know many girls must feel the same way I felt at that time of my life.
The indiscriminate bombardment of these dates sometimes makes young single girls, without boyfriends feel excluded, feel that they do not fit in, feel depressed others stay in a toxic relationship to not be alone, without knowing that in a relationship like this, you are in accompanied loneliness.
This is where the saying better to be alone than in bad company applies.
Currently, this date does not bother me nor do I feel uncomfortable, I like to see the expressions of affection and love that people make to each other, it is a day to celebrate love and friendship in freedom, but I am not one to send details and get romantic, maybe it has been because of my life experience.
Final thoughts
It is nice to be in love and to have someone to celebrate love with, but it is nicer to feel loved by yourself and to be in peace.
Whoever has balanced esteem can enjoy February 14 in the company or alone, love is more than a commercial date.
May your happiness does not depend on time because it changes, nor on money, because it runs out, nor on emotions, because they betray you, nor on people, because we are imperfect.
Be happy, no one can give you happiness or take it away, but you can share it.
This post allows me to participate in the @naturalmedicine contest in their love challenge with a prize of 100 hive and 500 lotus if you want to participate go to the link
Thanks for taking the time to read my post if you want to comment it would be a pleasure to answer your comment.
This initiative is possible thanks to the support of @riverflows who for @danielapevs is an extraordinary person, she surely is.
I take this opportunity to invite my friends @blessed-girl, @franyeligonzalez, @fmbs25, I do not know if they are single but it also serves for married or grout 😁
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This is an excellent reflection, in every sense. I am very grateful that you have uploaded this post with this message, it is necessary for everyone to read it.
Gracias @danielapevs por tus amables palabras y el apoyo. 🤗😉
I am also very romantic, sensitive and very intense when it comes to love. And I must confess that your publication identifies me a lot. But you said it yourself, the first thing we must learn is to love ourselves and then respect the freedom to love others. The rest builds itself.
And you are not alone, I give you my friendship and my loyalty, we all need worthwhile people in your life. Fuck Valentine's Day, love goes far beyond this date. I appreciate you for being so sincere and so lovely, you are the best. I send you kisses, hugs and many blessings. Thank you for your nice article. <3
Ahii made me sigh and made my heart go tiny, and then filled me with so much love with your comment.
Thank you, your friendship and loyalty will be well received, it is a gift you have given me today that I will cherish forever. 😘💓🤗 Like a treasure.
So beautiful thank you so much, one question are you a single man? 🤣🤣🤣😬😁
And fuck Valentine's day 👍😉. 🤭@pavanjr
Congratulations, your post has been upvoted by @dsc-r2cornell, which is the curating account for @R2cornell's Discord Community.
Enhorabuena, su "post" ha sido "up-voted" por @dsc-r2cornell, que es la "cuenta curating" de la Comunidad de la Discordia de @R2cornell.
Graciassss su apoyo siempre es importante. 😘🤗