Sometimes people are unknowningly ambiguous, they mean one thing but say something entirely different, they're conflicted with their inner desires, their sense of worth, what they need and what they don't, they struggle with being spoilt with choices, being egotistical to a certain extent and their actions entirely affects people who are close to them, people who loves and wants them. I've always said that it's important we scrutinize people like this a whole lot before placing sentimental attachments to them because naturally they're a wrecking ball with no sort of control. Sometimes people start out young and they're already in the limelight, having to cope with being overly sought after; maybe for their looks, wealth or importance.
People who are overly sought after usually make the wrong choices, they often depend on their wit, they usually want to take their time, they of course know the right thing to do but then they use to feel that these things aren't enough for their calibre, they feel extremely important and because of this they lose a lot of opportunity in life simply because they're out hunting for diamonds. This is one of the reasons why people fail. Sometimes people base their worth simply by looking at the feedbacks they get rather than searching deep down to really know who they are. These kind of people often feel that since they're sought after by a lot of people either for their expertise, their looks, wealth or brain, they needn't work on themselves to become better people.
Life's all about learning, but these people have climbed to some of the topmost pinnacle and here they see a certain kind of perfection to their essence. They feel too high to fall, too good to be bad or even too pretty to ever be seen as ugly again. I once feel in love with a person like this; she was a person struggling to understand who she was, I never knew this because I was blinded by this perfectionist aspect of her and overlook the canker worms of disaster she embodied. I felt I could conquer whatever weaknesses she had, I felt love could conquer it all, but then, love is a decision we make without placing the right metrics in place to ascertain how how might be rightly or wrongly affected.
Then again we shouldn't blame people like for being this way, sometimes some things feels too good to be true in our lives we're forced to even look farther to see if better things aren't out there. Greed is a human nature that's always in contention no matter how hard we try to subdue it. When we're fortunate to come across a jar of honey sometimes it feels like we deserve the whole hive and this of course proves that we're insatiable and sometimes insatiability makes us losers, we came in with something tangible but then we left empty handed simply because we've sacrificed the tangibility of the things we have already just to get some more imaginary tangible things and at the end we end up losing everything. I mean these kind of people ends up losing it all.
These people are enthralled by the things that don't have and because of this, the things they have seems valueless to them. When you get entangled to people like this, they make you questions your credibility, the value you bring simply because they didn't work hard to get you. It's important we recognise this sort of people in our lives and stay clear of them. For once, we need to be exposed to people who see the gem we are and of course a little sense of important we get from people who values us takes away something like inferiorly complex.
Sometimes when we're exposed to the wrong people, it makes us feel we're underachievers and we need to get to the top of mount everest to prove our mark. But this isn't true, no one should be made to do the impossible just go prove a point. Needless to say, we must strive hard for the better but then we can only know we've gotten to a better position when we stay away from people who sees us as the doors to the beginning of their adventures. These people are in plain sight they're out friends, our colleagues and most especially the women or men we fall in love with.
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