What makes the life more interesting is when each person have their own unique identities and unique personalities which makes them different from each other person..
The uniqueness could come from the way the person sees life and how they react to activities in life, it could also come from the kind of behaviours they have and the way they like to treat situations when they are confronted with one.
Everyone is unique in their own way ,your uniqueness is what makes you special.
Even when they feel you are weird , just know that even the weird thing about you makes you a special person that deserves happiness.
Everyone cannot behave the same way and we need to accept that as a fact , we cannot always all see life the same way all the time , it is normal for each individual to have different views about life and to also have different opinions concerning it.
I had to write this after I read a conversation that someone shared on social media concerning the conversation he had with a man who told her about how his daughter is an introvert and he wants her to become more of an extrovert because according to him he feels that she is not having enough social life because she loves to be indoors 24/7..
I believe that what the man is trying to do is totally wrong , he is definitely trying to force his daughter to become an extrovert , I believe he is trying to forcefully change her identity which is totally wrong .
Because she is an introvert does not make her weird and it will never stop her from getting successful , she is an introvert and that makes her unique and special.. That is her own unique identity and instead of trying to change her , why not make her become a better person and make her use her uniqueness to become great in life instead of trying to change her identity , trying to change her identity will only ruin her and her emotions..
I am sure the man is not the only person who have such thoughts of trying to change the identity of their loved ones because they feel the identity and behaviour of the person is weird or unacceptable by them.
Who made you the final judge of what is unacceptable or acceptable, who made you the judge of how people must live according to what you want and not what they want..
People have the rights to their own identities and you should not be trying to condemn them for it simply because you are not cool with their personality, because you do not like the personality does not mean others will not like the personality of the person..
You need to swallow your pride and stop treating people in a way that make you feel that you are always the right person while they are the ones doing the wrong thing , you have to learn to understand that nobody is perfect ,neither are you..
Learn to accept people for who they are, if you cannot cope with their personalities then you can simply leave them and look for someone else that have what you are looking for...you do not need to condemn anybody...
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