Es sabio dirigir el enojo hacia los problemas, no hacia la gente. Para concentrar tus energías en respuestas, no en excusas. -William Arthur Ward-
It is wise to direct anger at problems, not at people. To focus your energies on answers, not excuses. -William Arthur Ward-
Un saludo a todos los Hive amigos que visitan mi blog.
Hablar de lo que nos gusta y nos hace felices es muy fácil, tanto, que todo el mundo lo hace todo el tiempo; lo complicado llega cuando es momento de hablar de lo malo o de lo te roba la sonrisa, es ese el verdadero crecimiento cuando somos capaces de hacer una introspección, evaluarnos, reconocer nuestras fallas y trabajar en función de ser mejores personas cada días.
Por eso, hoy me motive a participar en este concurso semanal de la comunidad Ladies of Hive donde una de sus preguntas nos invita a hablar sobre esas cosas que logran sacarnos de nuestras casillas. Veo una vez más, la oportunidad de usar esta entrada como terapia para análisis de mi propia esencia.
Greetings to all the Hive friends who visit my blog.
Talking about what we like and what makes us happy is very easy, so much so, that everyone does it all the time; the complicated part comes when it's time to talk about the bad or what steals your smile, that's the real growth when we are able to make an introspection, evaluate ourselves, recognize our failures and work towards being better people every day.
That's why, today I was motivated to participate in this weekly contest of the Ladies of Hive community where one of their questions invites us to talk about those things that manage to drive us out of our minds I see once again, the opportunity to use this entry as a therapy for analysis of my own essence.
Todos tenemos un punto de ebullición diferente, algunos nos enfadamos fácilmente, otros tienen un temperamento muy frío. Por favor, comparte una cosa que te haga enfadar, cuánto tiempo permaneces enfadado, y qué o quién puede apaciguarte.
Si esta pregunta me la hubieran formulado quizás unos 10 años atrás, posiblemente la respuesta seria una larga lista de cosas que me harían enfadar, sin embargo; gracias a que en los últimos años mi carácter ha sido forjado con diferentes pruebas y experiencias que he tenido que enfrentar, hoy, la respuesta a esta pregunta la puedo resumir en algo simple y yo me atrevería a decir que hasta banal. Y es que una de las cosas que siempre me ha molestados es: Esperar
Las razones por las cuales me disgusta la espera es primeramente la impaciencia que siempre me ha caracterizado. Siempre me muestro muy ansiosa ante cualquier acontecimiento que este a punto de suceder y estar a la expectativa o saber que llegará pero no saber cuando, eso me tiende a molestarme un poco.
En segundo lugar, lo asocio con la responsabilidad y la puntualidad. detesto que alguien llegue tarde a un encuentro, una cita, una reunión, etc., me parece una falta de respeto hacia mi y logra molestarme de tal manera que posiblemente le quite el habla o trato a esa persona.
En cuanto al tiempo que me puede durar la molestia, diría que está directamente asociado al tiempo de espera que haya tenido que tolerar y que tan importante sea el acontecimiento o el encuentro. Puedes que el enfado se me pase en unos minutos o como puede que me dure unos cuantos días.
¿Qué o quién puede apaciguarme? Sin duda, la música. En mis momentos de rabia, de ira o irritación la música es mi mejor tranquilizante para cualquier situación o emoción que logre perturbarme, incluso en los momentos de alegría también es mi fiel compañera.
We all have a different boiling point, some of us are easily angered, others are really cool tempered. Kindly share one thing that makes you angry, how long do you stay mad, and what or who can pacify you.
If this question had been asked to me perhaps 10 years ago, possibly the answer would be a long list of things that would make me angry, however; thanks to the fact that in recent years my character has been forged with different tests and experiences that I have had to face, today, the answer to this question I can summarize it in something simple and I would dare to say that even banal. And it is that one of the things that has always bothered me is: Waiting.
The reasons why I dislike waiting is first of all the impatience that has always characterized me. I am always very anxious about any event that is about to happen and being in expectation or knowing that it will come but not knowing when, that tends to bother me a little bit.
Secondly, I associate it with responsibility and punctuality. I hate it when someone is late for a meeting, an appointment, a meeting, etc., it seems to me a lack of respect towards me and it bothers me in such a way that I may possibly take away the person's speech or treatment.
As for how long the annoyance may last, I would say that it is directly associated with the waiting time I have had to tolerate and how important the event or meeting is. You may get over the annoyance in a few minutes or it may last for a few days.
What or who can soothe me? Without a doubt, music. In my moments of rage, anger or irritation music is my best tranquilizer for any situation or emotion that manages to disturb me, even in moments of joy it is also my faithful companion.
Disfruto mucho los concurso de esta bella comunidad, porque como dije antes, en muchas ocasiones me sirven de terapia y es algo que creo que todas debemos practicar en algún momento porque el autoanálisis siempre es beneficioso para nuestro yo interno y nos ayuda superarnos como seres humanos valientes, guerreras y luchadoras.
I enjoy very much the contests of this beautiful community, because as I said before, in many occasions they serve me as therapy and it is something that I think we all should practice at some point because self-analysis is always beneficial for our inner self and helps us to overcome ourselves as brave human beings, warriors and fighters.
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Thank you!!! Very good.
Hay que ver como cambiamos con el tiempo, nos volvemos más tolerante ante los problemas y las reacciones que nos aquejan. Muchísimo éxito en el reto de esta semana. Un abrazote @beatriche
Gracias mi bella @sacra97 Así mismo es, la vida y el tiempo van forjando nuestro carácter a medida que vamos evolucionando.
Te envío un abrazo de vuelta. Saludos!
It seems that quite a few women use or list music to sooth the savage beast @beatriche, it seems to calm the women down far more than anything else. But there is nothing more powerful or persuasive than a guy who tells a woman to "calm down" hahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NOT!!!!!!!!
That is the very last thing any sane guy would want to tell an angry woman hahahaha!!!
Glad you figured out the awesome things that work their magic and calm you down, and yes, experiences tend to shape not only women, but everyone.
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Thank you!
Music is powerful and healing, I have no doubt about that.
And as for telling an angry woman to "calm down", I have no doubt about that. That is at the top of the list of fatal mistakes made not only by men but by all people, actually.
Thanks for visiting my post, for reading and commenting. A hug!!!
De acuerdo contigo es horrible esperar y cuando la persona llega y ni siquiera se disculpa por haber abusado de nuestro tiempo la sensación es peor.
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Eso me hace molestar aún mas, es una gran falta de respeto por donde quiera que lo veas.
Gracias por tu visita y por el comentario. Saludos!!
Waiting can bring annoyance especially when we have other commitments for the day and someone make us wait like forever. It feels like people who do that do not value our time.
Glad music calms you in different situations.
Many thanks Beatriche for your participation.
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