Ladies of Hive Community Contest #114

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This is me, in the beautiful landscape you're about to read

Hello @ladiesofhive how are you? This contest seems interesting to me, I'm going to investigate my memories and boy do I have memories! However, before getting fully into the subject, I would like to talk about certain aspects that I have experienced this year and that seem super positive and negative to me and with which I had to deal, I say positive and negative because today I can deal with them better but At first it was all a nightmare. And that issue is **adaptation**, you will see the great joy of 2022 was being able to buy my first own home, but with them came problems that, well, I imagine they are things that come with the territory: I chose a place to live it is very very far from the city center and I used to live in the city center so sometimes I feel completely isolated, even though this community is big, it seems like a small town; One of my intentions when I moved here was to have peace and tranquility, which is very difficult to achieve in what we call in my country Venezuela "a small town" (because this neighborhood is a kind of small town with houses next to each other). and one in front of the other) there are many things that I have to be thankful for in this place and in this house, for example, my house has a lot of security and is very beautiful. I bought it for my best friend who now lives in Brazil and she finally decided to sell it and I've been coming here since 1995, which is why I've seen all the changes and all the beneficences that have done the house and I knew exactly what I was buying. As for the place where I live, although it is quite remote and it is the first comment that people, including my family, make to me "that I live very far away", I love it because it is totally surrounded by nature, people around here love animals and plants and gardens are beautiful, there are large spectacular savannah-type landscapes to create content and the internet was a determining factor since my house is located very close to where the cell phone antennas and broadband network are, this logically makes my work enormously easier.

Regarding the adaptation, it was very difficult for me, because this is quite far from the city, the prices are high, although there are many wineries and stores and mini markets where to buy, people resell, that is, they go to the city, buy there and sell here at higher prices which seemed convenient at first but with the recent economic recession in my country it is no longer viable, on the other hand not all the neighbors are conscientious people there are people who like to play music at full volume for days and days followed especially in these holidays and people make a lot of noise and things happen that sound quite silly but affect a lot, such as robbery. They steal my water. Here, as in almost all of Venezuela, there are problems with the supply of drinking water and every time I fill my tank, in a matter of minutes I no longer have any. The internet is also stolen, this happened to me recently and it is something that is very painful for me because I feel that I have no one to trust, my family lives relatively close by car but by public transport very far away and with the gasoline problems we have in Venezuela since 2018 It is quite expensive and difficult and uncomfortable to go see my family or even go to visit a friend, getting around to do photo shoots is complicated and expensive to give an estimate when the person is not willing to pay for transportation. However, all this has led me to learn a great deal: I learned that I must be more empathetic with myself and with the rest of the people, I also understood that it is I who must adapt and not they me, I did the same as when I started in photography I began to hang out with people who were on the same energy wave as me who like to do the same as me and I have managed to create a group of neighbors and friends good friendly people and when I got sick in the middle of the year they were my helping hand because my family was really running out of gas right now so he could come up and help me.


Beautiful landscape isn't? and I can access because it's located steps away from my home

In conclusion, I am very happy with my life right now, I am satisfied with the decision I made to take charge of my life and move, a decision that I had been putting off since I was 21 years old. I feel proud of myself for being the biggest person and not expecting others to adapt to me, but I to them, what today is called personal growth, and I have focused a lot on empathy, on thinking what is happening in the mind and heart of that person who suddenly needs to silence his thoughts with loud music or alcohol? That makes me see the heart of others and the circumstances of others from the point of view of love and definitely with another lens. I don't feel like I have anything to regret this 2022 or be sad this was a year of much learning I took a painting course, I painted murals, I did super fun things, I learned to buy online from other countries, and although a tropical storm did a lot damage to my house, it is nothing serious that cannot be repaired. Thank God This year I did not lose any relatives or loved ones, on the contrary We have all enjoyed great health, especially my mother who suffered a sugar crisis in July of last year that almost cost her her life. I am grateful for everything and everyone, I say this from experience, that all situations teach us something, this year I also learned who I should blindly trust and who I shouldn't, I got closer to my family, I gave priority to them about other mundane things. I adopted my three kittens, I freed them from a life on the street where they might not have been able to survive and they are my greatest partners and friends in crime, make no mistake I'm not talking about toxic positivism here p****** I'm talking about the experiences that led me here. This year I cried a lot, this year I felt a lot the loss of the most important love relationship of my life that I was not able to recover and that I would have wanted to continue and to be the definitive relationship, however we are friends, and anyone who reads this will understand that that hurts a lot, understanding that hurts a lot, however, I also understood that I preferred his friendship to zero contact, since he was and continues to be a great asset in my life.
I had a hard time adjusting to having cats, I've always had dogs, never cats, and I wasn't the direct owner either. When the dollar increased at the beginning of mid-December, I panicked. I had a panic attack from this that I hadn't had in a long time and well the year was not perfect, but the good things were more than the bad things, life is the color and glass with which you look at it that is my great learning that in the year 2022 empathy for others, gratitude ** always * * detach myself from old habits and loves.. normalize that the only constant is change and resisting change only brings pain and frustration.

This photos were taken for me with my tripod and my Canon xti.

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