The value of reflection / Ladies of Hive # 56

in Ladies of Hive2 years ago

Hello hive ladies. What interesting questions this edition has asked us.

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Each of the questions leads us to think and analyze facets of ourselves. As if you had to clean a mirror that was foggy all this time and you didn't see yourself as you really are. Everyone is different in their way of seeing things, however, yes or yes, from time to time it is necessary to reflect.

1 # If you are in a bad mood, do you prefer to be alone or to be encouraged?

I am a person who likes to be alone. If I'm in a bad mood I turn into a sponge adsorbing every little thing in preparation for exploding. Especially if it's the person who made me sulk. I tend to lose my mind and be hurtful with words. A bad word can destroy hearts and even the strongest fall as if they had been stabbed. You always have to be careful what we talk about and how we talk about it. Unfortunately this is not always the case, especially if we are out of it. When negative emotions stir like a roaring volcano, we don't think, we don't analyze. And we end up hurting.

That's why I prefer to be alone, to be in a quiet place where I can calm down, cool down. Let the emotions settle, and the lava fade. Until it can be me again.

2 # Would you ever get someone who cheated back?

I believe that we as women have to value and love ourselves. A person who has cheated does not do such a thing for us. Regardless of the factors that influenced his trap, that person did not know how to value us, or love us. And beyond him he has failed us. I think we are failing ourselves if we continue with that person who only hurts us. We must value ourselves and look for better horizons where if we are loved and appreciated, either with another person or with ourselves.

Thanks a lot to @mjvdc for inviting me. Invite @lauralauze to participate.

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Lovely honest reflection on how you feel with both questions, yes some of us are slow to boil but once the time comes to explode I think it is much safer to be on your own 😆. Tongue can be as sharp as a sword.

Each individual should hold capacity to love themselves first, how we treat everyone around us will be in how we treat ourselves. Cheating is very specific to circumstance, some forgive others walk away.

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