To The Girl I Admire

in Ladies of Hive5 months ago

We have all been through different times in our lives. Some of us have gone through more difficult times than others, but we have all experienced both good and bad times. Times change, and so do we. We grow and learn from our experiences, and we become better people as a result. No matter what time in life you are currently experiencing, know that it will eventually end and another one will begin. Embrace the good times and learn from the bad times.


I had the chance to meet her once and I admire her. She has a great sense of style and an amazing voice. I see her as a strong, and independent woman who has so much to offer the world. It's been awhile since I've not seen her active on her social media network. Then a few days ago, she wrote a post on her Facebook that she's meeting with a therapist to help her deal with everything that she's going through. I understand that it can be difficult to open up about these things, but it's important to get the help that we need.

I have recently joined the group Ovarian Cancer Support. I have read a few stories about people's second and third recurrence of cancer. These stories are emotional and difficult to read, but they also serve as a reminder of the strength and courage of those who are fighting the battle. I can't imagine how hard it must be to go through that again but they seems positive and understand that they're going to live with it for the rest of their life and be ready whenever it maybe come back.

When we're vulnerable, it's hurtful. For a moment, I felt suddenly worried about myself then I'm told why I'm worry about thing that's out of my control. I recognize that it's so true. I can only control what is within my power. So it's better to focus on the things that I can control, and let go of the things that I can't. Since then I don't let myself be emotional or be upset.


Also, I recognize that it is more important than ever to be kind to yourself. Taking care of yourself emotionally and mentally is just as important as taking care of your physical health. When you are kind to yourself, you are better able to handle stress, you make better decisions, and you feel happier overall. It can be easy to get wrapped up in self-criticism, but try to remember that you are doing your best. Be patient with yourself and show yourself some grace.

Please don't feel like you're alone and that nobody understands what you're going through. I'm writing this and hope you will read as I want you to know that you're not alone. I'm here for you and so are other people who care about you.

It is an uphill battle, but I know that with the support of family and friends, as well as the strength of the inside, you will make it through, girl ❤️. Stay strong and keep positive, things will get better!

To the beautiful girl I admire.

Sending you all love and hugs


So it's better to focus on the things that I can control, and let go of the things that I can't.
This has always been my motto... I'm glad you do it too.
To you girl-friend, Stay strong and keep positive, things will get better!
!LADY 😍🌺🤙

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When we hear certain stories, we realize people go through certain unpleasant life phases but have chosen to remain strong through it all, it gives us the courage and zeal to realize that, we can conquer whatever it is that life throws at us and we can come out of situations stronger than we got into it.

Powerful and inspiring read, thank you for that. Hugs and greetings from Europe all the way down to you in Australia! :)

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One of my best friend has breast cancer and her psychology is terrible! From the day i heard the bad news i try my best to help here, to feel more relaxed! All these personal tries make me more humble and to appreciate more the simple moments! Nice post! Very inspiring!

I can only control what is within my power. So it's best to focus on the things I can control and let go of the things I can't.

I am one of those who take things very seriously, and I let what is outside affect my interior, I allow them to steal my peace and therefore, I steal the peace of those around me, Having read you has given me another point of view and I must act to improve my mental health and let loose what escapes my hands.

I hope that your friend finds the strength that she needs so much, that she knows that she has the support of people who care about her and that she has the love of God to accompany her in this battle.
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It is a beautiful letter, full of feelings and reflections. There are illnesses that need all our inner strength and a lot of faith to be overcome, as well as the support of our loved ones is very important in any difficult situation.
May God protect this beautiful girl and all those who are going through a terrible illness, I hope they can have what they need to get through it.

Best regards.

This is very touching and emotional @trangbaby concerning the woman. But you are have said it all, that "we can only control what is within our power" we should not think we are alone......hummmmm that's the spirit of encouragement. Infact, we can always think of what God has done when we felt it's finished rather than thinking of been alone. Thanks for sharing this. Stay blessed.

Wow this is beautiful and heart softening reading🥺

I got encouraged by your kind words stating the fact also that It's very important to be kind to yourself I agree with you. Thanks do have a nice new week.

Such an inspiring post. Thanks for sharing dear❤️

Thank you so much @trangbaby This was really uplifting. Indeed, letting go of the things beyond your control is a best form of stress release. To the girl I admire, Look up to God and hold on to your faith, He always comes through for his own❤️ Sending out love and big big hugs✨

This is so uplifting. ❤️MAy the beautiful girl you admire conquer all the challenges and trials she has been through.

And to the girl in the corner, you are not alone.🥰

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why I'm worry about thing that's out of my control

I always do this but only give me mental and emotional stress...
And it's true that we should take care of those aspects like how we take care of our body. Because if one aspect is deteriorated, others will be affected too, especially the mental health..
We aren't alone here, there is always someone who's willing to listen to our feelings and emotions..
Expressing them out in blogging could help as we..

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