Your looks shouldn't matter because all you need is the reflection of how you act or behave ,
The shape of lips or mouth shouldn't matter because it should be what you say that counts,
When you let the whole world know who you really are and how they look at you ,
Just bring out the best in you and not just about how you look or things you wear .
Sometimes people feel your skin or complexion should be a priority when you get to try impressing other people, but the reality is that 'at first, they might complement your looks but if you dont have ideas or engage in intellectual conversation,you might not be taking seriously too ..
I just want to share an experience i had about my self while going to visit a friend i haven't met in person,
We both do calls and all but we have never seen each other in reality ..
It was more like a date hangout and i got linked to her from from a friend,
At first i wanted to try impressing her because she looked soo pretty on the pictures sent to me and i was really eager and hoping she will be worth meeting too.
So on the said date i headed to the place were we planned meet.
It turned out it was one of the eateries around her region and i wasnt really familiar with that location so i called some people for direction and got helped to get to the place ,
At first i was nervous like i might not be what she was expecting like in looks and all ,then i just buckled up and went straight to get a sit inside thinking she was already there because i was a bit late the time we both scheduled to meet up.
Anyways it just turned out that i was there alone and i decided to call her atleast to know were she is at ,
20mins later she refused to pick up .i gave my self 1hr to wait patiently and if she didnt get to pick i might find my way back ,.
Just about 10mins later,her call came in and she was like "hello please can you come out from the eatery so that i can see you then join you"?
I wasn't just thinking about it and decided to go out and wait but then i asked my self"why will she not just come inside if she really wants to meet me;.
Well my own suprise was that i went outside and i didnt see her there ,then i called her back to ask were shes at..
So i just waited a little and boom i sighted her standing behind a bar across the street, then my mind just flashed and had to laugh,
When she came around,she really did look good and pretty with her white laced handless gown bringing out the full shape and hips and though the makeups were a bit heavy ,it still made her look much classy .
Then i asked her "so u just wanted me to come out so you can check if i was looking good and fine right ,?
She replied with 'yess oo why not ,i have to check you out first and assuming you were not fine you won't even see me approach you.
Gosh i just burst with laughter like ...
Is she for real,
Well i was finding it funny though that ladies still think that way so i just decided to join her while we get to pick a seat inside the place..
There came the conversation part and she refused to order for anything aside water ..
I just got myself a nice chilled juice .
So we engaged in a very deep and vast conversations were i asked almost everything and about different topics,
It was shocking she don't even have ideas about alot of things, especially about life and the fact that at 25 she doesnt really know what her plans are if she could get help in starting up things for her self,i felt really sad for the fact that she felt nothing bad about it ,and saying once she gets a rich husband 99% of her problems will be solved ..
I simple told her to kill that idea and explained why women are magical when it comes to being the best and creating great part for themselves especially when they are determined to do better ,and i even had to encourage her about trying out new things and gave her ideas of things to try out too.
Well at the end it was really a deep conversation but i just felt looks were definitely not enough reason to rate someone though ,who would have thought she practically had no ideas about anything ,
Not even sports or fashion or politics or movies or books ,
She even still think its Bill gates that is still the world richest man and this same cute classy lady told me she have not really heard of Elon musk , more of knowing he started a company that creates electric cars or even if he's among world billionaires..
So i know we might not know it all , but my expectations of the little things i wish she knew was just dead on arrival..
Maybe
like maybe she pretended not to know because she was telling me to fix another date so i can teach her about the crypto world too ..
And because of the things i was telling her she never wanted me to leave even though it was getting too late and my place was far and hers was really close to our meeting point , she even jokingly said i will sleep at her house if I can't find my way back too ..
Anyways , my conversation with the pretty charmy girl ended and i am so sorry to say i was not really impressed with her kind of ideas about having hopes on Men to do everything for her because she's a lady, and because shes pretty, which she did brag about alot while expressing her views..
And i might not really go for another date with her either .
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