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I am not married but I think both can happen depending on situation.

Am not married either, but the experiences from some married friends around me isn't encouraging. That's why I want to get some advice, suggestions and all that. In what situation can either happen?

Wait until you marry before you can tell a true life story

Eziokwu, what if it's something that's happening to a family member?

You can not know all the facts until you are directly involved.

Eziokwu? Well most of the story I told especially from paying dowry down to the wedding and omugwo happened before me.

So if he can't handle his family problem in the presence of visitors more is happening inside my dear.

Okay, if you say so. The thing about marriage is that you would think you know so much until you hear from the other party.
When the heat starts, that person that you think is caged or maltreated will be protecting their husband and you would be seen as the bad egg trying to destroy their marriage.

I think the woman involved is wise enough to make her decisions 🤔

Of course she is making her decisions. I just the both can handle the result of it.

Whatever the case, they would be fine 🙂

My dear marriage these days has different definitions ooo

Sister I tire for this one ooo.

Ahhh abeg yan us the Tory

You'll hear it.

Am waiting for it

You'll hear it.

Of course, it's a partnership, just that some people just want to dominate their mates sadly. Yes, there is a head, but doesn’t make him one to dominate the other as if she doesn’t have feelings and purpose in her own life

This lady has been dominated, caged and not valued in this union.

This is sometimes what women face in some marriages. Someone who is not valued and caged could never return any love or respect. Then, the problem intensifies unless they both look inward, think of the other person's interest, and make adjustments. It's just sad that it keeps happening

This lady is going through a lot, to the extent that her husband calls her families strangers, he's not ready to make adjustments or change. I am not married but hearing such stories scares me. But because there's always accident on the road won't make us not to drive. We gat to drive despite whatever!

Too bad. That's the world we live in now.

Too much for someone who claimed to love.

In marriage, there has to be partnership, without a doubt.

There's none in this one.