It's not distance, it's just destination.
In the complex map of human relationships, what is not seen with the naked eye is what has the most weight. Energies expire, versions transform and some connections simply complete their cycle.
We honor what was, embrace who we are, and make room for what's to come. We have to surround ourselves with people who drive us in our purpose. In my personal evolution process and in every counseling I accompany, I have confirmed that no one grows alone.
What I'm writing about applies to everyone, including family. Why?
Well, because we all need to create an ecosystem of purpose, I mean to create a circle of people, who share our values, people who contribute to us, elevate us, add ideas to us... and who we also lift back up.
Because yes; the people around you shape your lifestyle and you shape theirs and studies confirm it, we humans synchronize our brains with those with whom we are related.
So, the question of the day is: are you synchronizing with people who really accompany you to fulfill your resolutions?
My personal answer is that no one can enjoy their life if they do not first learn to value and be grateful for what they have because they end up feeling that they have nothing. While those who have little but appreciate everything, are able to feel lucky.
On Thursday, November 27, some celebrated thanksgiving or thanksgiving and although the origin of the tradition is American, the sense of gratitude is universal and I think it is a perfect occasion for us to talk about this topic that is beyond a lifetime...If only happiness had to do with what we have. The happiest would be those who have the most. And I've seen everything.
Happy with nothing, unhappy with everything.We constantly struggle to find happiness thinking that when we find it we will always have it, but happiness is based on enjoying those small moments when one feels full and at peace. In addition, life weighs less when we are grateful when we understand what is happening to us, and we know it, when we gain clarity, everything changes. But what many people do not tell us is that this clarity does not come alone, it is built day by day, with guidance, and real accompaniment.
We said goodbye to November and December arrived: stay away from the "gray clouds", those people who never see anything good in anything.We also need to get away from toxic optimists who see everything as a rainbow. They are destroyers of self-esteem and hopes.What are you thankful for today? Do you dare to share it?.
Today I celebrate that my heart, only has room for gratitude. Sometimes friends turn into miracles too.
Janitze 🌴
Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia
Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera eighties Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited by me with Canva
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