Before a man and a woman agrees to marry each other, they must have loved themselves. Unfortunately, most of the marriages that started with love later ends with divorce or breakup. In this post, I will share some of the things a man and a woman should avoid in other to maintain peaceful home. It is called little things that matters.
Lack of trust.
When their is no trust in a family, their is every tendency that the marriage might crash on the way. To avoid lack of trust from entering your home, honesty is the king. When you are honest to your spouse, you have win his or her trust. But any day he finds out that you have been lying to him or her, he will hardly believe you again. And that is were lack of trust comes in. So, do your outmost to be honest to your spouse.
Lack of communication.
In this world of technology, if we are not careful with our mobile devices, it can cause a lot of harm to our marriages. Many confide with their friends online instead of their spouses. Some after coming back from work will still be busy chatting with their phones and laptops keeping their spouse lonely. Gradually, they will start losing Interest in each other's. Please communicate with your spouse to avoid marriage breakage.
Lack of care.
When I talk if care here, I mean vice versa. Some thinks that is only my an has the responsibility to care for their wife's. No a woman should as well care for the husband. But, men has a greater work to do on that in the sense that, he provides for his family needs. Financially, emotionally and spiritually. When a man does his part, it will be easier for other family members to follow along. So, husband's, please love your wife's and wife's please show love back with respect. That's a way to avoid family breakup.
Abusive words/ lack of respect.
No way a man and a woman will leave together without quarrelling. So, when you are upset, don't use abusive words on your spouse. Respect keeps the family bond together and the couple's need to learn how to respect each other. Though their is no perfect marriage, but if this few points of mine will be avoided, the rate of family breakups will reduce.
In my next article, I will be highlighting 4 secrets of family happiness.
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Lack of good communication is the major factor of distrust in marriage. I will be waiting for the next article
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Thanks so much
Not always easy to follow those rules. You need to make an effort and keep going every day.
Yes, it's good to make efforts
good points, also professional counselling before getting married is a healthy start.
Oh yeah, that's the point
Most still don't lack anything but it still end because of their past relationships or life.
Long lasting relationship for exist but what those kind of relationship are those that learn to do everything you mentioned and also learn to forgive when it matters
Oh yeah, forgiveness is also important to family happiness
Communication is the platform on which marriage is built....when there is communication, the couples can freely express themselves and solve their marital issues
Exactly, that's why is good for couples to communicate regularly
Trust is a big issue today and it has led to breakups. I have heard of people spying their partners phones and things lack that showing lack of trust. When we learn to have some measure of trust, it helps
You are right Sir, trust is the key to family happiness
Nice post, personal, agreed with you. Their are many break up in our marriages today, one of them are: lack of trust, lack of respect, impatient, lack of communication and etc, are one of the diseases can crash a lovely, happly families. Finally, avoid this things, it's will restored our families. Keep it up.
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