Lady, build your house with your hands and protects it with your heart. Don’t keep company with failures.
It is not about what you wear that makes you attractive, it is who you are.
In any relationship, character counts much more than dressing or appearance.
Never mind what a man drives, but what drives him.
Whoever is not giving direction is a distraction.
Note that a stranger is a danger. Build friendship before you accept him.
A man without purpose is a man you must not follow for he has no future.
Love is more than mere attraction, it is conviction.
Keep your heart with all diligence for out of it are the issues of life (proverbs
14:23)
Anything can catch your eyes but do not let it catch your heart.
The mature gives attention, the immature crave attention, therefore give
attention to your man.
A woman is fearfully, wonderfully and delicately created in God’s image to
compliment a man and help to fulfill his God given destiny.
The man you are getting married to must love God, He must have the fear of
God, not a man that is already begging you for sex before you marry him
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He must have someone you can report him to and he will surely obey that person, the person maybe his father, mother, pastor, mentor, etc.
He must be of working class before you marry him or at least have something he is doing.
He must be a person of vision and purpose, he has to be a man ready to listen to correction
Be wise, don’t marry a deceitful man, know his past life, inquire about him from his truthful friends, and let them tell you who he really is. Love is blind but marriage will open your eyes and your heart.
Learn motherhood and how to pray for your husband all the time. Pray on his food, clothes, watches, no strange woman will snatch your husband.
Never play with knowledge, expand your mind wide and read various books on relationship and marriage. When you read books, you read the experiences of others. The mistakes they made, you won’t make it. Get relevant books, audio tapes, attend seminars, join groups that will enlighten you more.
The law of honor is very important, look for couples who have excellent marriage and sow into their life. You will enter their dimension of sweet marriage.
Don’t fight him, learn to keep silent whenever He is angry, woman ever want a woman that will frustrate him.
Be a proverb 31 woman, it’s a process.
Study motherhood carefully before you get married and above all, make
Christ the center of your home.
If he offends you, tell him, don’t keep malice.
Cook nice meals for him, share your mind, and communicate with him.
Learn to be a good wife, mother and minister in your house.
Brothers...
Don’t marry a jezebel, females are gates in the realm of the spirit, so many spirits have access into the lives, be sure she is clean before you marry her.
Don’t look for beauty in a woman, men! Read proverbs 31.
Don’t marry a lukewarm lady, a lady who will not stand up to pray at night with you.
Don’t marry a lady who doesn’t know how to take care of kids.
Don’t marry a lady who can get angry easily.
Don’t marry a lady who is not ready to submit.
Don’t marry a lady who is very aggressive, she talks anyhow, sleeps anyhow,
eats anyhow, very rugged, beware of such ladies.
Look for a lady with high moral standard.
Marriage is not 10years content, it is till death do you part, you see today will
surely become old one day, will you still love her? In sickness and in health?
Brothers, learn fatherhood, You are a priest of your family, have time for your
family, if you fail as a father you have failed in life.
Don’t give your strength to strange women.
Never be a lion in your home, don’t sound too authoritative, and always learn
to respect opinion of your wife.
Most of our fathers and mothers have failed, never fail your children, your
children are more important than your job and ministry.
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