THE WOMAN

Who is a woman? She is created to be helpmeet for the man. A woman is created to help, let’s check the meaning of help; to define help it means action given to provide assistance. A man has a whole of responsibility with him. God gave him work to do and cultivate, God gave him purpose and it clear that being a woman in a man’s life means you will live and work towards the same purpose. Remember, a woman is created to help, provide assistance for the man.
It is very important to note this, the assignment the work, the purpose, the garden God gave your man to cultivate, your job as a woman is to help him. Give him support; be his number one fan, remember that’s why you are created. You are created for the man. God saw that it is not good enough for him to be alone that’s why He created you to be his number one friend. A spirit cannot be so close to a man except the Holy-Spirit and the word Helper, comforter is used to describe the work of the Holy Spirit.
How did God formed the woman? Let’s check critically Genesis 2:21-23
And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead therefore; 22 God then used the ribs that he had taken from the man to make woman and presented her to the man. 23 And Adam said this is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called woman because she was taken out of man.
Shortly after God created Adam, he declared; it is not good for the man to be alone. I will make him a helper suitable for him. Adam and God had talked together in the garden, but the creator knew that human beings need other humans if they are to get along effectively. So God created Eve.
God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam so that he can perform the surgical operation. It is very crucial for all ladies reading this, single or engaged, if God has not worked upon the man you are about to marry, this might bring a lot of challenges for you in marriage. And he took one of his ribs and closed up the flesh instead thereof: let’s take a critical look at this sentence.
God worked upon the man, some characteristics in a man, and the behavioral traits in the man is what God used to form a woman for him. What does it implies? It simply means God formed the woman out of the man, some characteristics in a man, the behavioral traits in the man is what was used to form a woman.

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Woman, in your life partner, and if he is the right person for you, then some of his ideologies, characteristics, behavioral traits should be seen in you. Note the fact that you can’t agree with everything but there are some things you should agree on, you should be able to see somethings in the same way why? Because God took the materials He used to make you out of the man. This is the reason why some women have happy marriages because they truly marry the bone of their bones and the flesh of their flesh. It was the rib God took out of a man to mound you as a woman and if he is right for you, he should feel incomplete without you.
Let’s check the next verse 22, and brought her unto the man. It is important to consider this, God brought the woman to the man, and the woman did not give herself to the man. Every single lady reading this book should note this important part. Allow God to give you to him; don’t show yourself to any man. The bible is an ancient book that must be trusted. Let him receive confirmation from God that you are the light person for him. If God give you to him any problem that arises from the marriage, you can easily direct it to God because you didn’t give yourself.
Let’s check verse 23, And Adam said, this is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called woman, because she was taken out of a man. Let’s take this little by little, word by word, remember God gave the woman to the man, and there was a reaction, Adam saw the woman and he said something interesting “this is now bone of my bones” checking critically the function of bones in our body system,

bones represent structure, support system, without bones in our body there is no way we can walk or move around, there is no way we can function.
A woman is like a bone to a man, you are his support system. Adam looked at the woman, he saw himself in her, he saw his attitude, his uniqueness in her, that’s how your man should see you as a woman. You are unique to him. Don’t let anyone downsize you in the society. Women are backbone of men. There is adage that says “behind every successful man is a woman”. The beauty of success of any man is the backing of a woman.
No matter how a man is successful in his ministerial work or his career, if he failed in his family life without the backing of his God fearing women, he failed in every aspect of his life. You as a woman know your responsibility of providing backing support for your man. “And flesh of my flesh” Flesh provides covering, protection of vital organs in the body. Flesh also provides beauty for the body.
Adam was saying as soon as he set his eyes on the woman, this is now my structure, my support system, my covering and my beauty. Indeed the Almighty God saw it is not good that a man should be alone, A woman not only helpmeet but bone of bones and flesh of flesh. This woman represents my identity and what I believe in.
“She shall be called woman” In this phase we can see how Adam named his helpmeet, his bone of his bones and flesh of his flesh. Adam named her woman, what name has your man given to you? Adam named her woman, why? Because she was taken out of a man. His traits were found in her, her character was found in her and this entity named woman was almost a representation of a man.
Many men are calling their women differently negative names, oh she is stubborn, she is this and that and thus the woman exhibiting the name the man called her. Whatever the name Adam called the woman so she is. So to a man, whatever you call your woman, so she is. Always call your woman positive names, call her blessing, virtuous, a model etc. A woman exhibits whatever the name his man calls her.

Every woman reading this should note that you are a woman because you are taken out of a man and a man cannot be complete until he found his woman, the bone of his bones and flesh of his flesh. I want to show you a powerful mystery here, remember God took something out of the man to form a woman; thus the man is incomplete and what can complete the man, the man will only experience that completeness when he find his woman, the bone of his bone and flesh of his flesh.
Brothers and sisters, it is crystal clear that if we want to really practice what Jesus said “and two shall become one flesh” and in another version “no longer two bodies but one”, then it is important that we must have the knowledge of our partner. Brother, what do you know about her? Do you know her favorite food, best fashion sense? Do you know about her love language? What do you understand by a woman? Do you know what makes her sad and happy? Ask yourself this question, what do I know about my woman?
Sister, I am back to you... many sisters crave for attention to the extent of forgetting their man also needs affection, what do you know about the man? Do you know his shoe size? Do you understand when he is busy or not? A man is complex in nature, but have you developed the simplicity of understanding him or you are just selfish in your own terms? Remember the purpose and goal of all relationship/marriage is for two bodies to become one as it was so from the beginning. In the process of two becoming one, there is something important in achieving that, it is communication. I will expanciate on this as we progress. How can two bodies become one?

Excepts from the book : BECOMING ONE BY JOSEPH OLOWOOKERE


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I love this u say about woman, in addition Women are the primary caretakers of children and elders in every country of the world. Thanks for sharing this


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