As human, we love to be in charge, we love to control things. Being at the helm of the affairs of things around us is our joy. It is a natural instinct to just control.
This is why it is painful when we lose control, especially to foreigners or newly committee dwellers. Some people go as far as they can go to regain control of their authority.
The whole idea of control has been misconstrued. You don't require strength to be in control, neither do you need to struggle to be in control of things.
You control through your influence. Influence is the first and the most important thing you need to build to be in control. If you are influencial, you will never lose control.
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