The recommendation provided when someone not really want to help, You're brilliant; find it. Translation: I'm finished explaining.
Parents claim it promotes independence, bosses say it avoiding responsibility, friends say this when worn out by your continual issues.
Figure it out sometimes is required hard love, hand-holding stops learning, creates strife Strength and problem-solving muscles.
But timing is important, thrown into profound water, some learn swimming; While others drown, observers look.
When to offer guidance: versus when to say determine it out divides great teachers Wisdom gained from ruthlessness from lazy ones.
Instructions are not included with life. Every one of us is constantly learning something. act as though they have solved what everyone is still discovering, competence considered as performance art.
Figure it out assumes capability exists, but some issues call for Resources we lack, knowledge We lack; support is not available.
Not everything is figureoutable by oneself; Sometimes figure it out means Reach out not suffer in seclusion till you burst.