Today I read the following: "be like the moon and accept yourself in your different phases" and this is TOTALLY true...
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Since I became a mother I learned that I can be an octopus and take care of a thousand things at the same time, and even though I knew when I was looking to get pregnant that everything was going to change, that nothing was going to be the same, nothing prepares you for the turn your life takes when you have your little one... since neither your family, nor our husbands suffer this change (let's say it like this) change of phase, as mommy does... since the time you used to invest in certain activities like working, putting on make-up, ironing your hair or even going out to certain places... has changed...
My time is now limited because I am a mother (the best task and experience)... and EYE although we love our babies, and we do not regret what we live, we know that our life has changed to 365°, BUT we must learn that that rhythm of life that we were used to take will not be the same, to think that for now this is normal, and it's OK (and we should enjoy it because time is flying by) Mommy ENJOYS YOUR LITTLE BABY, and also enjoys those moments of nightgown and bow tie hahaha since nobody can judge you haha (my new uniform, although if it's for my baby I should be without flannel always haha...)
This does NOT mean that we are going to stop loving each other, NO LORD, we just have to understand that our love has been transformed and now our time is shared with this new little one who pays us with his look, smile and stop counting...
Mommy, today you are reading to me, I want to tell you something, if today you are lazy to do something, it is OK, if you don't have the time to do everything you had planned, it is OK...don't feel bad about it, it is OK sometimes to not feel completely OK but think that it is something momentary and that tomorrow is another day to achieve your purposes with your baby... today I leave you some advice: accept the help they offer you (I didn't want to accept it haha)... that won't take away your title of "super mom" because you already ARE one... blossom with your child and always keep the best of motherhood...
In this short but substantial time as a mother I have learned that we are wonderful women and that sometimes we look for miracles far away and we do not realize that we could have done one by giving life to LOVE, by tending our children (my little miracle is called FRANCISCO IGNACIO)... now let's continue to illuminate our children with our smile without losing our essence (either very dressed up or in your bow hahaha)... meanwhile for today I said to myself: "make yourself beautiful and make your child beautiful, life is only one and you have to live it hahaha" and I took this picture (note: right after this picture we went back to our favorite clothes, mine bow and nightgown hahaha and his body hahaha).
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