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Women are more likely to pursue men who are perceived as desirable socially—indicated by followers, verified accounts, or attention from other women—regardless of the man’s real attributes. Social proof often outweighs genuine substance.
##13. Admiration From Others as a Signal
In speed dating experiments, women preferred men who exuded confidence publicly, even if they were quiet in private. This highlights the instinct to value a man’s ability to be admired by other women, signaling high status and social dominance.
##14. Respect Over Material Gifts
Offering gifts early can backfire; women tend to respect men who set boundaries and decline small requests. Calmly saying no demonstrates self-control and leadership, which are more attractive than superficial generosity.