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Through meticulous research involving hundreds of video-recorded conversations with romantic couples, Algoe has uncovered compelling evidence of how gratitude functions in relationships. In her studies, individuals are prompted to express thankfulness for specific acts their partners have done recently, like bringing home a favorite lemon bar after a work event. The focus is on describing precisely what the partner did that made a difference—highlighting the specific behavior rather than general appreciation.
For example, one partner might say, "The fact that you remembered I like lemon bars and brought one home means a lot." This detail underscores the intentionality and thoughtfulness behind the act, strengthening the sense of closeness and recognition.