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A significant part of the discussion focuses on modern social media’s role in facilitating open hypergamy. Women often use social media platforms—posting selfies, engaging in frequent updates aimed at garnering attention—as a way to “optimize” their hypergamous instincts.
The speaker refers to social media activity as creating a "box of dicks," highlighting that women’s constant solicitation for attention effectively puts their “radar” on the lookout for higher-value men—those who can provide better resources, status, or provisioning. This behavior isn't necessarily overtly intentional but an expression of inherent female nature: seeking the best possible mate.