All my life I realize most ladies I discuss with want almost the same thing but different in style especially when it comes to choosing a man they want to spend the rest of their life with. They all want a guy that is 6feet tall, that’s handsome, rich, a guy with a vision, kind, and blah blah…
The truth is we all want good things and sometimes to get this we have to work more and plan well because dreams don’t come easy, building might seem like forever but when we do it right, it is always worth it but we all want a life of comfort with less work or no work at all. If you listen well to ladies type of guy what they are all referred to is already made guy.
Quick upgrade
One thing is certain when it comes to already made guys which is the upgrade, a lady with nothing can become a millionaire by just marrying the already made guy. This is one of the biggest problems in society you see extremely beautiful ladies having this belief that they are supposed to be taken care of and not work. These sets of ladies are referred to as higher levels, not for a guy that is trying to build a life and this is one of the realities you have to live with as a man. Quick upgrades can be easily done when you have something to offer and at least ladies make the sacrifices, but some quick upgrades are against the order of things. We have some other quick upgrades like inheritance which is not bad depending on some other things and some quick upgrades made by force or dubious ways.
What prompts people to steal or scam is because they want a quick upgrade to life with doing less or nothing, what people fail to realize is that sometimes time, risk, and effort are put into looking for quick upgrades if we put it into something worth it the result on the long run will be greater but we want quick upgrades so that it will put instant solutions to our problems.
Instant solutions.
Why women love quick upgrades is because it brings instant solutions to most of their problems like financial and emotional problems and why scammers or thieves choose to risk everything for quick upgrades is because it brings a quick solution to their problems and to build something for the future can’t solve the problems at hand. The instant solution is a disease that has eaten the soul of many and it has destroyed many lives and businesses. What normally brings about the idea behind instant solutions can be pain, fear, and wanting to live in another reality but the reality is instant solutions are very costly.
Overpaid.
If you noticed an instant solution you will see that it doesn't last, after the risk of life and sacrifice just to make an instant solution to all our problems at the end of the day it doesn't always worth it because whether you scam your fellow man or steal from somewhere when you get caught that is the end. Just like you been referred to hive and the next thing you do is plagiarism for instance rewards you will destroy the journey you have not yet started on hive.
The best is to build from scratches and don't try to skip a step because an instant solution or a quick upgrade won't take away our problem and pain completely it will resurface later in the future.
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These kinds of ladies are to be avoided, I think building a future together is better than wanting someone that has already made it.
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Ladies hate this fact but some are intelligent to know the power in building
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