This reminds me of a birthday party I once attended. Mine wasn't drink but food. Marijuana was added to it. I experienced most of the symptoms you described here. I was still with my mum then. I had to leave the house for a while to avoid being noticed by mum. It took me three days to fully regain myself.
Just like you said, I hate being intoxicated. I love being conscious of my every move.
Down here, it's now a thing for edibles and liquors to be spiked in young adults party. That's one of the reasons I don't party.