Change your attitude and you will change your life!

in OCD3 years ago (edited)

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Are you really happy? None of us are happy all the time, but there are times when we are supposed to be happy but we are not. This might be because of external factors or just things that happened during the day. When unhappiness lasts for a long time it is time for a change.

Happiness is ALL about your attitude towards life. If you are not happy with a product that you bought, then you will return it and get your money back. Why would you keep the product if you are unhappy with it. The same goes for your own unhappiness. Why do you want to be unhappy at all?

The first thing that you have to do is to admit to yourself that you are not happy. Once you come to this conclusion, you can actually start to change things.

Why do you have to admit it to yourself? 


Simply because you have to make yourself aware of the fact and to realize that it is time to change things.  

Once you admit to yourself that you aren't happy, go and sit down and make a list of things that makes you unhappy.

This might sound stupid, but if you write it down you might actually understand where the problem is and find a solution faster. You don't have to do it all in one day, so take a few days to write down every little thing that makes you unhappy.

Once you have a list you can start finding solutions.

Remember there is always a solution to a problem! 

(Even if it means getting rid of friends that make you unhappy.) 

To make yourself happy takes a lot of optimism, and you need to think
positive thoughts. Remember, positive thoughts attracts positive results.

If you have friends making you negative, then make new friends. Overall, positivity plays a big role. If you don't want to lose your current friends, start motivating your friends positively. Just like negative thoughts, positive thoughts also rub off.  

If you surround yourself with more positive people, then chances are that your whole life will change.

Get rid of any negativity in your life and you will be happier! Life is way to short to be unhappy. We see so many negativity around us every single day.....let your little light shine and start changing the world.

Negativity starts when you look at your problems and you see no way around it. Positivity starts when you start searching for solutions!