Many of us are very self conscious and we care what others think of us. Being around people make some of us feel unsafe and we tend to find our own little place where we feel safe.
When we feel unsafe, we are insecure and this means that we don't feel loved.
Why does it matter so much to you what others think? They are also just human and they are on the exact same level as you. No one is better than the other.
Perhaps we have taught ourselves that we need to get approval of others. How ridiculous is that acually?
When we are babies we are applauded for things we do well. When we learn how to walk everybody is happy and clap hands. This continues when we become adults and for some perculiar way we feel as if we need others to approve what we do.
We are all the same. Colour, religion and size doesn't matter. This insecurity is a human experience that we have brought onto ourselves.
You don't need the approval of anyone for anything that you do. You are equal to everyone else and there is no one better than you. It is time that we start believing in ourselves and motivate ourselves to do better.
It is only by our own standards that we measure ourselves and we only fail when we didn't reach a goal that we created ourselves.
Be secure and believe in yourself!
You are beautiful and you are the best person you can be. Don't let anybody tell you any different! Forget about other people. You are the only one that matters.
