How to know if your date can develop to a serious relationship?


The question in the title is keep repeating from students. The general version goes like this: "I have recently met someone new and am wondering if it will turn into anything serious. How can I know? Can you?", and it seems that if there was a machine that could foresee, it would be a huge hit, everybody would buy it.

However, there is already a maching like that! And before I describe it I wish to address the problem called doubt.

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Usually, people on dates are full of doubts because there is a battle inside them! Reflect on your own last date.

Do you know what parts of you were struggling with each other? Try to look back and see if you can remember a time when you met a new person and did not have a single doubt about whether or not they would stay! Can you find a time when you were totally sure of yourself?! You see, as long as you are in doubt this is what your reality will reflect to you. It's simple.

It really isn't about them and it really does not matter if they stay or not because the lesson is for you to learn. It has always been your lesson and until you learn it, you will keep attracting people who will make you confused and doubtful about their intentions towards you.

So you ask 'how to know?' and my answer to you is that your date is serious and they are not serious at the same time. Two potential outcomes lie right in front of you. In one, they leave you or something else happens and you two break up (perhaps after crying and frustration on both sides). In the other outcome you create a long lasting relationship with them and live happily ever after.


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Do you wish to know which potential will manifest?

The answer is simple and it depends on one thing only – you!

In a relationship what counts is YOUR progress, YOUR expansion, and YOUR personal growth. In order to attract someone who is reliable, serious and who does not confuse you, you need, first and foremost, to become such a person yourself!

Ask yourself – where are the doubts within you? What are you not sure of about yourself? Do you really LISTEN to your heart? Do you accept your intuition’s nudges when they arise or do you suppress them with your mind? You are truly gifted when it comes to inner guidance and you already knew the answer to your question even before asking. You simply wanted reassurance from me, here, didn’t you? And that is perfectly alright.

The questions people ask thyemselves, these doubts that I speak of, will guide them towards self-empowerment and in time will bring them what is chosen.



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Hi!

I would say if you have a decent astrologer he can check the compatibility! But a decent astrologer is hard to find. Although not rare, just uncommon. I do it all the time for students or clients. In any Case though compatilibity is just 50% I've seen people always meeting someone in the right transits, it always happen, but if they don't nurture and grow the relationship nothing will happen.

Cheers!

Indeed.
and the timing is also crucial!

The best for them is to go with the flow and see where it leads but not preplanned!

... Yet, to remain focused on their choices.
A man who wants a LTR goes on a date during which he is asked to have a ONS, should carefully think if going with the flow would serve his goal. And vice versa.

Yay! 🤗
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That all boils down to trust and communication.

Your dates going to be low on trust and low on communication the person you're meant to be with is going to be high on trust and high on communication.