Predicting the future of a relationship is not so difficult. Yet one needs to be bold!


Excerpt: Following are two questions I was aksed by students attending my Master class.


Hello Nomad,

I was hanging out with some friends last night and the guy that I truly care for was all over my best friend. I am angry with both of them. Can you give me more information about this situation?

Do you really feel and think that this guy is for you? That he may be your “one and only”? This whole situation relates to your self-esteem and whether or not you love yourself enough!

You know what to do!


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Hello Nomad,

I am a divorced 30-year-old woman with no children of my own. Not long ago I met a charming single 32-year-old man who showed a lot of interest in me. I really like him. He is attractive and joyful and very kind with a good heart.

On the one hand, I long for a new relationship after 6 months of being alone, but on the other hand, I am afraid I would be wasting my time (I am not that young, you know) in a relationship that might turn out to be the wrong one.

So my question is simple, is there a way to know in advance if our relationship will be successful?

Thank you,
Rona from Canada


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Credit: Elena Koycheva


Rona,

You are asking the One Million Dollar Question, aren’t you?

If we could only predict the future in every aspect of our lives, not just regarding our love life, we would certainly live differently. But would it make us happier or more content? I doubt it.

You see, there is a great reason for, and wisdom in, not being able to predict the future.

Firstly, the future is never fixed or set, so in very practical terms it cannot be predicted. But more than that – having to make decisions in the present without definitely knowing, helps us develop inner tools that eventually expand who we are.

What would YOU consider to be a successful relationship?

Would it be measured by its length? Its quality? Its content? Or by how deep it would penetrate your feelings? You see, first and foremost you should clear away the clouds and fog by defining for yourself what you want. Right now you are confused about your romantic life in general and so your future also looks vague.

On the one hand, after your recent divorce, you might have decided that you do not want to get married any time soon and would rather fully enjoy what life brings. You set your mind on being more “free”, with no obligations or a strong connection to anyone.

However, from a higher soul perspective life brought you a little surprise and ignited that old passion for romance and closeness. You seem to be pulled by two allegedly opposing forces. What to do?

Forget for a moment about the man you met and return to yourself. Ask your inner intuition what you really want. What kind of life do you want for yourself in the coming years? One that is based on mere sexual encounters? Or a TrueLove kind of relationship? And once you make up your mind would you be ready and willing to do whatever it takes to create your chosen reality?

Many people complain about relationships that are not good enough – mostly in the emotional aspects – and blame their spouses, whereas if they only took on themselves proper responsibility in the first place - before a relationship became serious – they could save lots of time and anguish.

For, you see, Rona, if you go within now, and make a definite and clear decision for yourself Now, your future will suddenly become crystal clear and you will stop being confused. This is the gift that comes with being responsible and making decisions. Many people don’t do that and choose instead to “go with the flow”, allowing “life” and others to make decisions for them. So the question remains the same - WHO does Rona the human being want to be – someone who responds to reality or someone who creates her reality?!

To sum it all up - before you decide if this man or another is “right” or not, ask yourself – “right for what?”; “suitable for what purpose?”; “appropriate for what style of life?” As soon as you are clear with yourself and are selfishly focused on what you want, your decision will become much easier.



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