How has minimalism most profoundly changed your life ?
This year started with a surprise and I consider that to be a divine wish, because I had no plans to go to my native and all of a sudden, we decided to go, to give them a little happiness. It felt like God has his own plans, to be available at the right time to bring Mom and get the surgery done. It has been more than twenty days and she is recovering nicely to get back in action soon. They have given a lot of vitamins and protein powder, to straighten her immunity and after almost seven years, Mom started eating dinner, because the doctor advised to do so. Initially she was reluctant, but after 4-5 days her body adjusted and an early dinner at 7 pm makes her feel better. Earlier she had a mindset that they are stuck (getting older) and possibly don't have much choices, but this surgery has changed the whole perception.
I have made her realized how God has a different plan and even though we did not have a clue, everything was taken care in time - You are not stuck Mom, you can always think new thoughts, create new habits, completely recreate yourself to rise again from anything. Don't get fooled by you mind - you are never as trapped as your mind tells you.
Dad was quite relaxed to get back to his place, he feels more comfortable there than in our apartment, which feels legit to me. He was a bit tense during Mom's surgery but now he is a relieved man, committing me to help Mom as much as possible. We both ( Mom and me) know that he won't do much, because he has never done in his entire life, but at least saying so to do is a positive sign.
All my schedule has been affected in this process, but I am very happy to say that a big hurdle has been cleared, taking away my stress, because as long as Mom is healthy and stable, she can run the show. Nothing is permanent and if we take that on a positive note, then all what matters is that, we decide today to start fresh and never look back. Difficult time comes in life, but appreciating how far we have come, gives us more positive energies to reinvent ourselves.
Life has become very busy and I have not been able to write frequently, even though I have a lot to share, but that's OK. Let me deal with one bullet at a time, rather than being overwhelmed and being trapped by mind.
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What great words, my friend! Deal with one bullet at a time. It's also true that our minds cause us to fall into traps. We have to learn to silence certain thoughts. I congratulate you. You did well to help your mother. That's a beautiful way to repay her for her care and love. What are other things compared to the need to care for our loved ones? Best wishes, and may you have a better year.
My wife is very good and living the simple life and that has rubbed off on me for sure. I used to have so much junk and she has encouraged me to purge a lot of that material stuff. I don't miss it either.
Good that she is motivating you to make things simpler.
When parents become old they take a lot of time to take care of them, my grandmother is taking a lot of time from my mum too!
Of course, my friend, it's a sign that he was there when his mother had that incident, and that he also helped her make a successful recovery.
Muchos saludos a la Señora , hermoso jardín ..😄
Actually sometimes I have always have this strong feeling that we sometimes overate our minds
The important thing is not to stress, my friend, and it's good that you were able to be with your parents at that moment to help them quickly. We have to try to be careful with our pace of life; slowing down will allow us to observe everything in the best way and thus make the option that not only benefits us but also the rest of the family.
The mind is the most important part of our existence and whatever we tune our minds to is what we get in return. We must never be trapped because we can do many things without being stuck by age.
It's a great news for you that your Mom is becoming healthy...
Health is a great blessing of God...
You are lucky that you are still looking after your parents and taking their prayers...
Glad to hear your mom is recovering well. Health really changes your whole perspective on everything else.
Glad to see your mom recovering well, and your dad still has that strength.
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Good to see you back. I noticed you've been busy but you need to give a focus on your mom and dad.