My husband was also married and was in the process of getting a divorce when I first heard about him. When we met, it was on a blind date. He made it clear from the beginning that he was NEVER going to marry again. And while that doesn't sound anything near to perfect, he eventually changed his mind about marriage. He proposed, we were married, and last weekend we celebrated our 22nd Wedding Anniversary. You can never tell. :)
Thanks for your story. The sharing thing is the key. My husband and I talk non-stop about anything and everything and have been doing so since we met. Keep that going and you should have no problems.