Amateur words shouldn't be said but at times we think that the best way to handle situations is by handling them seriously. Seriousness has many tones. What I am trying to say is that, they will have a solution out of it but that will need both the husband and wife to be cooperative to each other. I am not married yet, so I might sound stupid or in a trance, but I say what I learn from life.
Sir, life is the real example of how relationships go haywire due to lack of patience and irritation and it all relates with the terms, "freedom" and "being caged." The wife, your sister, might feel caged and handicapped. You will know better, maybe her husbands support is the ONE thing that will make things alright.
Before marrying, there are people who are often unaware of what they are diving into, resulting as intolerance over toxicity. My sister has problem with her in-laws too. It is way too common, not only in our country but world wide.
I feel, her husband, should be the one handling and taking care of stuffs. The responsibility of a husband is HUGE. So, is wife's but seems like the wife is handling it. You will know better. Patience and management, is the key.
If the in-laws are impatient, the husband should be the one to fix it. It is a very simple solution, not something over which divorce and separation should be an concern. If the wife is not receiving her part of the respect, the husband should be the one to help her gain it. A husband and wife are better halves not met by chance.
The rest is not in our hands. I will keep these families in my prayers, hope is all we have got and if there is any possible way for action, we/they mustn't hesitate.
A beautiful family, a long thriving life of hardship that is in despair and a repetitive action of abuse, must be met with a conclusion, a solution. We are humans, the best creation.
I agree with you, however there are always some unprecedented complicacies present that pushes peoples limits. and makes them abusive towards each other. same is the state of affairs with the person about whom I wrote that post.
its true, people rarely ever think hard and long before jumping into a marriage. love makes people blind about a lot of things. I hope though someday her situation improves.
thank you for being a kind person with warm words. thank you. thank you for keeping them in your prayers.