El matrimonio de mis abuelos: Una segunda oportunidad para el amor | My grandparents' marriage: A second chance for love

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Hola queridos amigos de Hive, el día de hoy quiero contarles sobre un lindo momento de mi vida, un momento único que definitivamente es de novela.

Hello dear friends of Hive, today I want to tell you about a beautiful moment in my life, a unique moment that is definitely novel.

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Comenzando esta historia tan interesante, les contaré desde el principio
Era finales de los años 50's...los padres de mi abuelo y la familia de mi abuela eran de un pueblo del Táchira llamado El Palotal, mi abuela, la mamá de mi abuela le gustaba la Capital del país, Caracas y pasó una temporada en la capital; alguna vez le dijo a mi abuela:
Menos mal que estamos aquí, no me gustaria que te casaras con alguien de El Palotal.
Mi abuelo desde niño estuvo en un Liceo militar al occidente del país en La Grita, Táchira, al egresar de ahí, entró a la Escuela de Formación de Oficiales de la Guardia nacional en Caracas.
Un primo de mi abuela estuvo en Caracas y se encontró a su amigo de Él Palotal (mi abuelo) se saludaron y hablaron largo tiempo, el primo de mi abuela invitó a mi abuela a la casa de mi bisabuela y le dijo que su prima era muy bonita, mi abuelo le dijo:
Eso es para que yo te lleve, pero bueno, vamos.
Cuando llegaron a la casa de mi bisabuela el primo de mi abuela le presentó mi abuelo a la bisabuela, hablaron un buen rato, pero mi abuela no salía, después de un buen tiempo mi abuela salió y fueron presentados, él le preguntó entre sonrisas: ¿Dónde estabas que no salías? Ella le respondió: estaba en un Nicho y él agradado se reía..... Así se fueron frecuentando, apenas mi abuelo pudo contraer matrimonio porque era oficial recién graduado al ascender al grado de teniente coincidiendo su ascenso con el cumpleaños de mamá 06 de julio de1963 realizaron el matrimonio, fue muy hermoso.
Pasaron momentos hermosos, pero también muy difíciles, mudanzas, por vos cambios de residencia debidos a los cargos dentro de la institución militar, nacimiento de sus 4 hijos a mediados de los años 60's y principio de los 70s y el fallecimiento de la última hija en 1975
Quizá por la inmadurez comenzaron los conflictos de pareja por más de una década que hizo que el matrimonio terminará en divorcio después de más de 40 años de matrimonio...

Starting this very interesting story, I will tell you from the beginning
It was the end of the 50's...my grandfather's parents and my grandmother's family were from a town in Táchira called El Palotal, my grandmother, my grandmother's mother liked the capital of the country, Caracas and spent a season in the capital; she once told my grandmother:
Luckily we're here, I wouldn't like you to marry someone from El Palotal.
Since he was a child, my grandfather attended a military high school in the west of the country in La Grita, Táchira. Upon graduating from there, he entered the National Guard Officer Training School in Caracas.
A cousin of my grandmother was in Caracas and met his friend from El Palotal (my grandfather) they greeted each other and talked for a long time, my grandmother's cousin invited my grandmother to my great-grandmother's house and told her that her cousin was very pretty, my grandfather told her:
That's for me to take you, but hey, come on.
When they arrived at my great-grandmother's house, my grandmother's cousin introduced my grandfather to my great-grandmother, they talked for a long time, but my grandmother did not come out, after a long time my grandmother came out and they were introduced, he asked her between smiles: Where were you that you didn't go out? She replied: I was in a niche and he was pleased to laugh..... So they went hanging out, as soon as my grandfather was able to get married because he was a recently graduated officer when he was promoted to the rank of lieutenant, his promotion coinciding with his mother's birthday, 06 July 1963 they got married, it was very beautiful.
They had beautiful moments, but also very difficult ones, moving, because of you changes of residence due to positions within the military institution, birth of your 4 children in the mid-60's and early 70's and the death of the last daughter in 1975
Perhaps due to immaturity, couple conflicts began for more than a decade that caused the marriage to end in divorce after more than 40 years of marriage...

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Mi abuelo decidió casarse con otra mujer, mientras que mi abuela decidió permanecer sola, sé que para ambos fue un momento difícil, pero cada uno hizo su vida y así paso por 20 años aproximadamente.
Así pasaron los años, mi abuela paso por momentos muy difíciles y decidió vivir con nosotros, pasaba ciertos meses en casa de cada uno de sus hijos, fue la mejor decisión ya que nosotros como nietos podíamos disfrutar de su estadía y ella se sentía feliz.
Lamentablemente la esposa de mi abuelo falleció, entonces tanto mi mamá como mis tíos decidieron que era mejor que regresara con nosotros ya que por su edad necesitaba atención además que su memoria estaba fallando.
Mi mamá y mis tíos se organizaron de manera tal que mis abuelos no coincidieran en cada uno de las casas, porque creíamos que sería un momento incómodo para mi abuela.

My grandfather decided to marry another woman, while my grandmother decided to remain alone, I know that it was a difficult time for both of them, but each one made his life and that's how it went for approximately 20 years.
Thus the years passed, my grandmother went through very difficult times and decided to live with us, she spent certain months at each of her children's houses, it was the best decision since we as grandchildren could enjoy her stay and she felt happy.
Unfortunately, my grandfather's wife passed away, so both my mother and my uncles decided that it was better for her to come back to us, since due to her age she needed attention, and her memory was failing.
My mother and my uncles organized themselves in such a way that my grandparents did not coincide in each of the houses, because we believed that it would be an uncomfortable moment for my grandmother.

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Después de un tiempo de convivencia mis abuelos se veían en reuniones familiares y hablaban por largos ratos, cada día se veía la conexión que tenían. Hasta que decidieron estar juntos nuevamente, no podía negar la felicidad de ambos. Después de esas decisión permanecieron juntos y cada mes que les correspondía estar en casa de alguno de nosotros estaban ambos.
Llegó el día que decidieron casarse nuevamente, como pueden ver a lo largo de todo este post he subido fotos de ese momento.

After a time of living together, my grandparents saw each other at family gatherings and talked for long periods of time, every day the connection they had was seen. Until they decided to be together again, she couldn't deny their happiness. After that decision, they stayed together and every month that they had to be at one of our houses, they were both.
The day came when they decided to get married again, as you can see throughout this post I have uploaded photos of that moment.

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Quien lo pensaría mi abuela con 80 años y abuelo con 83 y decidir casarse nuevamente y nosotros ser parte de ello, son momentos únicos e inolvidables

Who would have thought my grandmother at 80 years old and grandfather at 83 and deciding to get married again and us being part of it, they are unique and unforgettable moments

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En el momento menos pensado de la vida, ambos le dieron una segunda oportunidad al amor, sin pensar que llegaría en ese momento de su vida.

In the least expected moment of life, both gave love a second chance, without thinking that it would come at that moment in their lives.

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Envejecer al lado de alguien con quién has compartido tanto tiempo y por circunstancias de la vida se separan y de nuevo están juntos es más cuando se debe aprovechar esos momentos.

Growing old next to someone with whom you have shared so much time and due to life circumstances they separate and are together again is more when you should take advantage of those moments.

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Es así como mis abuelos cuentan una historia de telenovela

This is how my grandparents tell a soap opera story

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