Many times we ask ourselves, why did that cute little girl marry that dark-skinned man? Or why did that slender, good-looking young man marry that woman with almost no favorable attribute? Or why are the couples that are united so different and often get divorced?
This is the explanation to all those questions:
What happens is that the couples first unite spiritually in the space before incarnating and generally constitute themselves as companions of destinies, that is to say as companions of struggle those who have greater material affinity, which means that they have greater situations in common, such as common debts both of justice and of lives among others; reason why the companions of destinies have been before, in other existences parents, brothers, cousins among others, is, therefore, greater affinity one of the other.
.jpg)
It is also taken into account to join as companions of destiny the need to help each other in their spiritual progress, ie complement each other in their respective evolutions or spiritual progress (the weaknesses of one are the strengths of the other and vice versa) there is the talk of the better half.
Other aspects are taken into account as the common contributions that they will make to the progress of humanity and their different missions in common that they must carry out.
Since the two major like-minded are incarnated, they are always in continuous spiritual communication (in unfolding), hoping that it is the mathematical moment according to the c.g.s to unite according to their respective judgments-destinies and when it corresponds in Justice to unite, they will unite.
When prejudices (of any kind) are not the cause of not having joined the major kindred, it is because that companion (a) of destiny must first meet in justice with another brother (a) and pay debts of lives and in many cases even share responsibility as father or mother of those children and is that in another existence was his biological father or mother and for whatever reason did not raise , did not educate him and now without being his biological father or mother he must raise him, educate him and give him love (but they already have a bit of his soul); because the spirit always continues its work, often without realizing it as a man.
I pointed this out to an esteemed sister who I saw interested in this point and it served her like a balm to continue waiting for her elder kindred when it corresponds in Justice, so I wanted to share it with all of you, waiting for your valuable contributions in this regard.
Happy is he who forms a home with a kindred person; happy is he who, having formed a home, by justice, with an antagonistic spirit, at the end of an existence manages to make an affinity with him; happy is he who pays debts and allows his partner to pay him what he owes him in healthy peace; greater affinity than we have in an existence is your partner, even if he is your greatest enemy in spirit. It seems a contradiction but it is not.
Hi, @elprofe62!
You just got a 0.1% upvote from SteemPlus!
To get higher upvotes, earn more SteemPlus Points (SPP). On your Steemit wallet, check your SPP balance and click on "How to earn SPP?" to find out all the ways to earn.
If you're not using SteemPlus yet, please check our last posts in here to see the many ways in which SteemPlus can improve your Steem experience on Steemit and Busy.