I like your calm and thought-out answers, especially to those questions. Some of them were more "Will you do what I say or are you a bad person?" and not real questions at all.
All in all, the language used by a lot of people is counterproductive. Reading your text was a pleasant relief :)
Thankyou - yes, there is some push/pull going on here for sure.. Real calmness comes after the emotional movement that's needed. <3