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Hello lovely friends!
The world of children is a world of play. Of course they will be comfortable playing with peers. In this case every child will definitely need friends.
However, playing won't always be smooth, right? They are there when they experience commotion, quarrels and fights often occur. Never mind children, adults sometimes have disagreements with friends. So, it's natural to see children fighting with friends.
It could be the reason the child's quarrel is very small. Just because fighting over toys or not being able to accept defeat in a game. Sometimes just making fun of each other or saying something unpleasant can also cause a fight. Not infrequently their quarrels end up crying or spitting at each other to fights as the peak of physical contact.
Involving parents
When she cried then she complained to her parents. Parents who see a child crying, especially with injuries on the body, will certainly be easily triggered by emotions. If parents are incited by their children, the parents will confront like the child's version of the story.
If the parents of a child's friend who are bullied do not accept it can be a cause of quarrels between parents. All happened because they did not accept what happened to their child.
Many parents feel they have to intervene in defending their respective children even though sometimes they don't know where the problem is. They want to avenge the child's pain. In this case, of course, there is something that can be understood when you are sad to see your child hurt by a friend. No parent has the heart to see their child hurt.
When you see your little one quarreling with friends until they cry, let alone hurt, dad or mom definitely doesn't have the heart and wants to defend him.
How to overcome child fights?
We all know that conquest during childhood is common. When fighting they are trying to convey their emission. The child's emotional condition is still unstable. they are looking for some form of socialization. they still don't know well about tolerance, addressing problems, and maintaining good relationships. Naturally, if he is still very sensitive and easily provoked by his emotions.
Let's see when today's quarrel, surely the next day we will return to play together. The day after they fight, they will get along well again. It turned out that the quarrel that happened did not make the children want to be friends anymore.
When fighting with friends, he is actually practicing his social intelligence. He is adopting values by having to face problems and learn to yield.
That way we have to make sure their fight is not dangerous. In this case, parents should simply observe from afar. What must be considered is not to let them fight. Do not let the argument injure the child because of their fight until it causes physical contact such as hitting each other.
If you see a fight that has led to a fight, immediately break up and reconcile them. Remind them to come back to play together and forgive each other.
Thus my writing this time, hopefully it will be useful for all of us